“How are you?” is one of the easiest questions for a man to brush off. Many men were raised to keep their feelings to themselves, so a quick “I’m fine” can hide a lot.
This #MensHealthMonth, we’re challenging long-standing gender norms and encouraging men to #RewritingTheRules.
Here are 10 therapist-backed questions that anybody can use to get the guys in their lives to express themselves freely ⬇️
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Reframe what it means to “be a man” 💙
Which of these rules did you grow up hearing? Tell us below, and tap the link in bio to start rewriting your own.
#MensHealthMonth #RewritingTheRules
Men have been ingrained with the same tired narratives for as long as we can remember.
It’s time for a clean slate. To unlearn everything society has taught us about what it means to “be a man.” By freeing ourselves from others’ expectations, letting go of the shame, and quieting the outside noise, we can become the best and truest versions of ourselves—and it all starts with therapy.
This #MensHealthMonth, we’re challenging long-standing gender norms and sharing expert advice on supporting healthy masculinity for generations to come.
Avoiding your therapist for a few weeks or months is okay, you can always show up again. They'll still be there for you when you're ready (or even if you're not).
You don’t have to hit rock bottom to deserve help. ❤️‍🩹
This National #SubstanceUsePrevention Month, we’re sharing advice from addiction experts on what prevention and early support really look like, including the one thing that matters more than spotting warning signs. ⬇️
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Normalize cheering for other people's healing without comparing it to yours. Their pace isn't your pace.
What’s one unconventional thing that helps your mental health?
We’ll go first: actually talking to yourself the way you would talk to a friend.
Feeling behind usually isn’t about what you’ve done. It’s about who you’re comparing yourself to. As the year winds down, it’s tempting to tally everything you meant to do and overlook everything you actually got through. If that’s where your head is lately, you’re far from the only one.
📌 Save these affirmations for when the “should’ve done this by now” voice gets loud, and share them with anyone who needs a gentler year end.
Not clicking with your therapist doesn't mean therapy isn't for you. It might just mean you haven't found the right one for you yet.
One good thing for your mental health can look like:
Taking a deep breath.
Stepping outside for 5 minutes.
Snoozing notifications for an hour.
Saying 1 kind thing to yourself.
Today is a good day to do one small thing for your mental health. #WorldMentalHealthDay
Your daughter hasn't called back. By dinner, you've already gone over every word of your last conversation.
There's a name for this: anxious attachment.
#AnxiousAttachment is an insecure relational pattern rooted in early experiences that teach you love is unpredictable and must be earned. The good news is that attachment patterns can heal over time.
Take the 5-question self-check and learn how to start shifting the pattern here ⬇️ talkspace.com/blog/anxious-a…
If saying no to someone makes you feel guilty, you're not the only one.
Wanting to help the people you care about is a good thing. But that doesn't mean you're responsible for saving them. How, when, and whether you help is your choice, and setting that boundary is okay.
“Was that a panic attack or anxiety attack?” If you’ve ever asked yourself that, you’re not alone. The two get mixed up all the time, and one of them isn’t even an official diagnosis.
A panic attack hits fast and usually passes within minutes. An anxiety attack builds slowly and can last much longer. Knowing the difference can help you figure out what you need in the moment.
📌 Save this list of signs for the next time you’re not sure what you’re feeling.
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ALT A comparison chart titled "What's the difference?" contrasts panic attacks and anxiety attacks. Categories include onset, duration, trigger, and intensity. Panic attacks have a sudden onset, last 5 to 20 minutes, lack a clear trigger, and feel overwhelming. Anxiety attacks have a gradual onset, can last hours or days, are linked to specific worries, and range from mild to severe. The background shows a cloudy sky.
Most of us were raised to believe that brushing off a compliment is simply good manners. And a little joke at our own expense? Harmless.
But when putting yourself down becomes a reflex, it quietly chips away at how you see yourself. Research even links self-defeating humor to loneliness more strongly than any other style of humor.
Read on to learn how to recognize when self-deprecation has crossed the line and how to build healthier patterns of self-talk, confidence, and emotional resilience.
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“We don’t talk about this outside our family.” 🧑‍🧑‍🧒‍🧒 ❌
For many in the Hispanic community, growing up with unspoken rules about emotional pain can be the norm, but #mentalhealth doesn’t have to be a taboo topic.
Turns out there's actually a name for a lot of what shapes that silence: familismo, machismo, fatalismo. Read on to learn where each one comes from and what it can cost if it goes unaddressed. ⬇️
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