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Joined August 2007
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Holy cow. The #DaytimeEmmys2026 just got super political. Wow 😳🤦🏻‍♀️
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#ScottNorris is not in the clear.
Scott here thinks he’s totally in the clear because while he heard about a rape commented on a rape witnessed the rape and did nothing about it, he didn’t actually rape anybody so we should all just leave him alone.
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This. So much this!!!
When men rape, everyone talks about their futures. When a woman is raped, everyone interrogates her past. #Cornell7
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All of this AND he was wasted.
Six cameras. In a classroom. Pointed at teenagers. That is what Prince Harry brought to Ninestiles Academy in Birmingham last week for a visit that was, on paper, a good idea: Invictus, prosthetics, engineering, a carbon-fibre leg on the table, the sort of thing that can genuinely change what a fifteen-year-old thinks is possible. And then the crew walked in behind him. One of the students said what all of them were thinking, on a video now everywhere: there are six cameras in my face. He added two words the school will not have enjoyed. Another pupil, before the Duke entered, reportedly asked who Prince Harry was. In the footage the kids sit around the table, barely looking up, while he gestures at them. Nobody is laughing. They just want the lesson back. Now remember who he is. This is the man who has told us, in a book, on Oprah, on Netflix, in a courtroom, in speech after speech, what cameras did to him as a boy. Who walked behind his mother's coffin at twelve with the lenses on his face and has, quite reasonably, never forgotten it. Who left the country, he said, to protect his children from exactly this. Whose children's faces are hidden from every camera on earth except the one his wife points at them for Instagram. Who last week stood on a stage in New York and warned the world about technology that finds young people, hooks them and exploits them. And then he walked into a school full of other people's children with six cameras, because a visit without cameras is a visit without content, and content is the only thing that still gets him a headline. That is the tell. The crowds have thinned. The book is three years old. The Netflix numbers are what they are. A school in Birmingham does not draw the attention it used to unless it's filmed, so it was filmed, and the children who are supposed to be the point of the exercise became the set. He knows better than anyone alive what it feels like to have a lens pushed into your face at an age when you cannot say no. A boy in Birmingham said no anyway. Good for him. Somebody had to.
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This! This…
We choose the bear because if it drugged and assaulted us for 7 hours, authorities would shoot it not ask it to write an essay and then help it find a job at a wealth management firm. Be so for real, Cornell.
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She is a hero!
A 7-year-old girl was riding her bike when a stranger pulled up, grabbed her and forced her into his car. Her aunt, Alecia Swejkoski, saw it happen and sprinted toward the vehicle. Alecia threw herself halfway through the driver’s side window and started fighting him while her niece was still trapped inside. The man punched her, grabbed for the wheel and violently jerked the car forward and backward, trying to throw her off and get away. But Alecia kept one hand on the steering wheel and the other fighting to get his grip off the little girl. Then another driver, Scott Van Luven, saw what was happening and pulled his vehicle in front of the car to block the suspect in. He rushed over, helped pull the man out and held him there until police arrived. Alecia was hurt, but her niece got out safely. Because Alecia refused to let go and Scott chose to stop and help, that little girl made it safely back to her family.
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I still haven’t reached that level of recovery and I don’t think I ever will. Heartbroken for this woman. 💔
Cw:R What's especially sick about the Cornell thing is that, speaking from experience doing IV ketamine for treatment, ket allows you to feel your body and have conscious thoughts but you cannot make your body move. That she was forced to endure seven hours of torture is beyond me, and will have to live with this for a lifetime, as traumatic memories are not integrated into normal memory but stored in active memory, so the limbic system experiences them as current when prompted, and the inescapable horror happens to her again as if no time has passed. This is why rape is so insidious, and is essentially a life sentence even if victims technically reach remission with years of hard work. These men should perhaps be in prison for the time it takes her to get her PTSD into remission, which will take at least a decade or more at minimum... Though many never reach that level of recovery.
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This. So much this. No one understands this.
Do you know what’s so fucked up? When a woman is raped, it alters the trajectory of her entire life. But it doesn’t seem to make a fucking difference for the rapist’s life.
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So we are at The Play That Goes Wrong. And something actually really went wrong. The study above the stage nearly fell. For real. The play has been stopped a while. Wow.
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I am so disappointed in @edsheeran. According to the @nypost, he denied he personally kicked @macklemore off his upcoming tour dates after the rapper made anti-Israel remarks during a recent performance. I saw the headline and then was just so disappointed with the article. Sheeran said… “I would never let down the fans who had made plans, nor would I abandon the touring crew and the other support acts and musicians who rely on me for work and to make a living.” Yeah. What a cop out. He did not condemn what was said. He said that “He is just appalled by the conflict between Israel and Palestine.” Given Sheeran’s past willingness to take positions on Brexit, Labour politics, LGBTQ+ rights, and Ukraine — his saying now that his public position is essentially “I don’t take sides” on Israel/Palestine feels hypocritical to me. Okay dude. I’ve loved you since you opened for @taylorswift13 and I really liked that throughout all the drama surrounding her you stated you would never speak ill of her. Done with you. But now I love @Pink even more. “All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to remain silent.”
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I just did an actual spit take!
I can’t stop laughing. Canadian geese will now be known as “Donald Ducks”.🤣🤣
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I was lucky enough to see him in Spamalot years ago.
The Muppets have released a statement on the tragic passing of Tim Curry. “Few humans have earned the title of honorary Muppet more than the legendary Tim Curry. As a performer, he was unparalleled – witty, charming, unnerving, and deeply funny. We will always consider it one of our greatest treasures to have been part of Long John Silver’s crew. Thank you for everything, Tim.”
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Years ago in CA, we switched from paper bags to plastic bags to “save the trees.” Then we realized the plastic bags were killing everything else, so as of Jan, we’re back to paper. I just went to @Walmart & their paper bags are now half the size, but of course, still 10 cents 🤦🏻‍♀️
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Wtf? Are you channeling @TomCruise from 2005?!? To quote @brookeshields, You are doing “a disservice to mothers everywhere.”
A lot of people aren't going to want to hear this but much of the "depression" that parents (and not just moms) suffer after child birth is due not so much to hormones but to the fact that children, especially babies, are demanding and difficult and require us to subordinate our own needs and desires for their sake. The more selfish you are, the more of an adjustment it's going to be.
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Medical sources say postpartum depression is multifactorial. Rapid drops in estrogen and progesterone after birth are key biological factors, along with sleep loss and adjustment stress. It is not primarily attributed to selfishness. my.clevelandclinic.org/health/disease… mayoclinic.org/diseases-condi…
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I am Gen X. That isn’t true. My first paid job was as a pharmacy tech in HS. Then I worked weekends and summers all thru college at a travel agency booking and delivering tickets to have spending money. My senior year of college I worked paid overnights at a radio station, went to school, did my free internship at another radio station and also worked at the travel agency. When I graduated the second radio station hired me and I worked at least 60 hour weeks. 40 hours in the station and 20+ hours doing remote broadcasts nights and weekends. I saved a lot and went back to school to get my nursing degree. I did an unpaid internship and then got a tech job at the hospital I wanted to work at, and after I graduated they hired me as a peds nurse. I always had roommates. Some I didn’t like and vice versa but I was always working so it didn’t matter too much. My best friend introduced me to her same age nephew. I lived in FL and he lived in NY. We had a long distance relationship for 2.5 years, got married and I moved to NY and got an overnight PICU job while he worked days. We had one car. We saved enough money to buy our first home. It was the cheapest one we saw. It was a fixer upper. We fixed it up while we both worked. We got a second car when the first stopped working. It was so old we just donated it. In the meantime I also miscarried 6 babies. Had a boy. Miscarried 4 more and had another boy. I gave up my nursing career and I started one of the first parenting blogs in 2004 called Blogging Baby between having the boys. My husband worked nearly 24/7 and sold his company and we were able to buy a better house and then we had a little girl and I became a SAHM. My husband worked all thru HS and college as well and I don’t see him retiring anytime soon.
Replying to @PolitiBunny
Millennials & Gen Z work more hours and more jobs than previous generations with less compensation in return. They also log more unpaid hours than generations prior. More than boomers more than Gen X etc. Their costs are also higher than any of those generations. Just facts
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I will never support the @RedCross after how they ignored the Israeli hostages. Just disgusting.
🚨 JUST IN: Elon Musk RIPS the Red Cross after they got caught DELETING a shocking video that praised a Muslim migrant — Sharif Ahmadzai — who migrated to Britain and KlLLED A WOMAN Then he hid her body in a suitcase... Absolutely unbelievable. THIS IS WHO THEY PRAISE ELON: "The Red Cross has far more positive branding than it deserves. As organizations go, they would be on the leaderboard for suicidal empathy." 💯 h/t @BasilTheGreat
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I just followed as well.
I don't feel cancelled? My followers have gone up to almost a million on @instagram and on here to half a million? open.spotify.com/track/1Jmqu…
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One of the most heartbreaking things I have ever witnessed is my uncle being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on a Monday, because he could not be seen earlier, and then him dying the following Sunday. Only one person PER WEEK could visit him and it could not be changed. So the family chose his daughter for that week rather than his wife. No one else could visit. THAT is heartbreaking.
🚨🎥 TMZ's Harvey Levin calls the attacks on Dr. Anthony Fauci "one of the most heartbreaking things" he’s witnessed in government, comparing the push to jail him to the fear and persecution of the McCarthy era.
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😂🤣😂
Elizabeth Warren wants to retract her endorsement of Graham Platner but she doesn’t want to look like an Indian giver.
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