You can't reject me, I don't date!

I want to date someone I can do simple shit with. Like.. go to the thrift stores together, try little unknown food spots together, take random pictures of each other at any given moment, talking about random shit like aliens and theories… just create memories. Not this over luxurious social media relationship shit that’s glorified. It looks cool but It’s unfulfilling. I’ve done the luxorius “Instagram” relationships and they’re nothing compared to having something that’s down to earth.

What do you think she is looking for?

Am I overreacting my ex gf is crashing out over me seeing someone else.

Before you fall in love with someone’s personality, pay attention to their habits. You will build a life with their patterns, not their potential.

Am i overreacting for not calling the girl I'm seeing during my lunch break?

I don't think people realize how romantic it is to be considered. Not surprised with expensive gifts. Considered. Someone remembers you hate driving at night. They save you the last bite. They notice when you're quieter than usual. They make room for your preferences without needing applause. To be considered in the smallest decisions is to be loved in a thousand invisible ways.

Dating in your 30s is realizing you have standards, then watching yourself develop a crush on someone who meets absolutely none of them.

Imagine planning a future with someone, only to find out they were hiding things from you that would've made you walk away from the beginning. You weren't given a fair chance to choose.

It's okay to wish things had worked out differently. Just don't let that wish convince you to return to a situation you've already cried your way through.

Some of you lost genuinely good partners because you assumed they'd always be there when you finally got your shit together. You didn't think they'd actually get tired and leave.

Dating nowadays is actually insane. They pursue you for months, make you laugh, make you feel wanted, and slowly earn your trust. The moment you finally let your guard down and reciprocate their energy, they disappear like they were a limited-time offer. And somehow, you’re left questioning yourself when all you did was finally let someone in.

this is so toxic of me but sometimes i want people to notice i’m struggling without having to say anything, and then i get sad when they don’t.

the fact that my future wife is probably out here with another man is upsetting me & my homeboys rn..