Akolo Emmanuel // Visual Artist

Social media have made it look like there are enough rich men to go round. 😂 Chances are that if you are going to marry a Nigerian man in his thirties he won’t be very rich, the riches start coming from 40 down - and that is if he has spent his 20s & 30s building. Which means there are more rich 40 year old men than there are rich 30 year olds, …which means that, statistically; majority of rich men (especially in a low millionaire dense nation like Nigeria) are in their wife’s house 😂 which means that you are more likely to land a rich sugar daddy in Nigeria than you are to land a rich single man. When it is narrowed down like this you are really faced with 3 options. ➡️ Option #1. Find a rich man in his 40s & displace his wife. ➡️Option #2. Go and chase your own money (rich women are sexy). ➡️Option #3. Find an ambitious man and make sure he is focusing on building one big business/career over time. But if you must absolutely become a rich 30+ man’s wife; your focus needs to be on men with 1. Daddy’s money. 2. Yahoo boys (they fall into a money windfall very young. God forgive you two). 3. Or move to a high brow area and hope you don’t land a guy faking it 😀 whichever part you pick, your dream is valid. Go Queen. However, I have noticed that a man can get very rich within 10-15 years of intense focus on something that can scale. One right idea. Very intense focus, and you have you a bubbling rich fine 40 year old husband side chicks will be dying to displace you for 😀 It is a big bet though, in that amount of time he could also face serious business disasters that will wipe him out. One bad business decision and puuff… …but then - not your portion.