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1. If males can be women, and females can be men…then what exactly is the difference between men and women?
2. What does it mean to ✨feel✨ like a woman or a man? Feelings are happy, sad, angry etc. What does woman feel like? What does man feel like?
3. If it’s feeling masculine or feminine then what about feminine men and masculine women? Are we now trans?
4. What is the difference between a “trans man” and a masculine woman?
What’s the difference between a “trans woman” and an effeminate man?
5. What makes someone transgender? Seems like you just have to declare yourself as such. How do you know who is and who’s not?
Just a few questions I have. Trying to answer 2 and 4 played a big role in my detransition and if you know a trans person I encourage you to ask. Not in a rude or confrontational way, but ask as genuine curiosity, they have to come to the answer themselves when or if they are ready.
Yeah because you’re spreading false misinformation about my condition and using my condition to spread lies about there being “more than male and female”
I asked “what is gender identity”
I detransitioned because I lost my belief in gender. When that happened I knew I was heading towards detransitioning, though I did not want to because there was this intense feeling of betrayal. By that point continuing to be trans felt like practicing a religion I don’t believe in, and I just couldn’t do that anymore. Did any one else feel something similar?
No, we don’t sound like them. YOU sound like them. I was raised Roman Catholic, I was told I’m disgusting and that I can unlearn my homosexuality. I’m saying I’m not attracted to males, and I can’t change that. You’re saying that I’m “transphobic” for not wanting males and a lot of males who incorrectly call themselves lesbians say that I should unlearn my “genital preference” and accept them as potential partners. You and the religious homophobes both have a shared belief that sexuality is mailable and that homosexuality can be unlearned.
Apostate Apotto retweeted
the last line 🥴 so you’re allowed to have a genital preference so strong that you’ll only date trans women with bottom surgery, but lesbians exercising that exact same autonomy is suddenly framed as bigotry? oh so preferences only count when they’re yours. got it
Nope. There are only 2 sexes. You can be a male with a DSD or a female with a DSD. Also love how they manage to shoehorn in intersex in every trans argument.
Apostate Apotto retweeted
Terfs, actual radfems, are gender abolitionists. There’s no way to act & dress “like a woman”. The only requirement to be a woman is to be a female adult person. A qualifier to the definition. Nothing like presentation & individuality.
Sexist stereotypes are reinforced by gender
Apostate Apotto retweeted
Trans people like to use intersectionalism in order to appropriate the struggles of other minorities for strawman arguments during gender debates.
I would like to comment on the sheer irony of people on the GC side who say that woman is not a costume when it comes to TIMs but then simultaneously say that a detransitioner who remains gender nonconforming after detransition is not really detrans because they are “still dressing like a woman” or something.
Like I said I still dress in the same clothes I had before, but I own up to being a woman, I have accepted my sex. I think that is what detransition is, not adhering to the same bullshit standards that got us here. You can be a man and be feminine, or be a woman and be masculine. It’s very sad that some on the GC side can’t seem to grasp this. The inability to grasp that will only harm the GC side and the others who believe woman=long hair and dresses are trans people.
I don’t understand thinking this way of thinking. There is nothing inherently woman (female) about long hair. All that is is social norms, very very old social norms. I don’t believe detransition means becoming “gender conforming”to your sex. I think it means drop the trans belief system. Like this is why I changed my name to Apostate, I don’t have the belief anymore. I see it more like a religious cult now.
I see similar echos from some on the GC side and I find that counterintuitive. I still keep my hair short and literally have not changed my wardrobe since I was trans. I still dress the exact same way, in the same clothes. I look like a woman because I am a woman, adult human female. What does a woman look like other than female? Who seriously answers that with “long hair.”
Why reinforce the same stereotypes that got into this mess? I don’t understand gender criticals who have that same idea. For trans people it makes sense for them to see woman as an aesthetic…but I don’t understand it when GCs spout the same
Apostate Apotto retweeted
Birthright citizenship be like “I broke into your house and gave birth on your floor, my child gets to live here forever now”
I don’t understand thinking this way of thinking. There is nothing inherently woman (female) about long hair. All that is is social norms, very very old social norms. I don’t believe detransition means becoming “gender conforming”to your sex. I think it means drop the trans belief system. Like this is why I changed my name to Apostate, I don’t have the belief anymore. I see it more like a religious cult now.
I see similar echos from some on the GC side and I find that counterintuitive. I still keep my hair short and literally have not changed my wardrobe since I was trans. I still dress the exact same way, in the same clothes. I look like a woman because I am a woman, adult human female. What does a woman look like other than female? Who seriously answers that with “long hair.”
Why reinforce the same stereotypes that got into this mess? I don’t understand gender criticals who have that same idea. For trans people it makes sense for them to see woman as an aesthetic…but I don’t understand it when GCs spout the same
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Replying to @JessOrWhatevs
I don’t think it’s a good thing non women want to co-opt every term women use to refer to themselves. It’s not woke it’s gross.
Woman=Adult human female.




























