
Wife, mummy and now granny. Alienated for 4 years from her child. National Chair of Trustees for @BothParentsMtr All views my own.
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Frances Carr retweeted
“I often meet people who tell me the same thing, almost verbatim, I disagree with you, but I value genuineness and honesty in our politics”, says Kate Forbes. Politics is enriched when people are gracious and fair, willing to understand whilst disagreeing. heraldscotland.com/politics/…
9 out of 10 are abuse cases says Natalie
Assumption: Dad is the abuser
The pattern I see is that abuse is raised when one parent has issues maintaining a healthy relationship with their children because of interference from the other.
Q: Who is the real abuser?
Frances Carr retweeted
This is Rick Rescorla. He died 25 years ago today, when the South Tower of the World Trade Centre collapsed following a terrorist attack. His actions that day saved thousands of lives and today schoolchildren in Cornwall will take part in a parade in his honour.
Frances Carr retweeted
9/11 is a harrowing reminder of the very best and worst of men.
Yes, all 19 hijackers were men, but it’s also true that the 343 firefighters who lost their lives to save those within the towers were all men too.
Men are capable of both terrible harm, and heartbreaking heroism.
Frances Carr retweeted
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay
Can an improved therapy for men reduce male suicide?
Some reflections by me on clinical psychologist Chris Ferguson's @CJFerguson1111 appraisal of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
centreformalepsychology.com/…
Frances Carr retweeted
💙 Today is World Suicide Prevention Day
At Both Parents Matter, 62% of the fathers we surveyed reported experiencing suicidal thoughts at least once before contacting us.
If you’re struggling - we are here to help:
👉 0300 0300 363
#WorldSuicidePreventionDay #SuicideAwareness
This 👇 🎯
Well done Sam. You're right, CMS isn't fit for purpose and this is only the beginning.
BBC Panorama helped bring the experiences of parents affected by the CMS into the national spotlight — but this is only the beginning.
Coverage is only valuable if it leads to action.
#BothParentsMatter #ChildMaintenance #CMS #PayingParents #TimeForChange
Frances Carr retweeted
📷 ON NOW!
BBC Panorama: Child Maintenance – Parents Under Pressure is on BBC One now, featuring Sam Morfey, CEO of Both Parents Matter.
Tune in and hear the voice of paying parents.
Also available on Iplayer: bbc.co.uk/iplayer/live/bbcon…
#BBCPanorama #CMS #PayingParents
Frances Carr retweeted
Today, we featured on both BBC Breakfast and BBC Panorama, highlighting the experiences of paying parents and the need for change to the CMS
💙 Want to help us keep pushing for change? Join us: familiesneedfathers2.beaconf…
Frances Carr retweeted
📢 Sam Morfey, CEO of Both Parents Matter, has just been LIVE on BBC Breakfast, calling for change to the CMS:
bbc.co.uk/programmes/m0030dh…
And Panorama: Child Maintenance – Parents Under Pressure is now available on BBC iPlayer: bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002zlr…
#Panorama #CMS
Well done Sam Morfey and @Gingerbread CEO Abigail Wood.
You both perfectly explained why CMS isn't fit for purpose for either parent, and that ultimately it's the children who suffer when they fail to get the calculation right for both parents.
Our CEO Sam Morfey’s BBC Breakfast interview is only available to watch until tomorrow! Access the clip to hear the paying parent perspective and our call for change to the CMS.
📺bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m0…
(7.31am or 1.31 into the programme)
#ChildMaintenance #BBCBreakfast #CMS
Frances Carr retweeted
No Jennifer.
In the last year, 25% of boys in the UK, who were in a relationship, were pressured or coerced into sexual activity.
In the last year, 2.3% of girls (and 3.3% of boys) have perpetrated sexual assault.
71% of British men have been sexually victimised by a women.
CMS is supposed to make life easier for parents to sort their maintainance payments, by minimising direct contact.
The calls to our help line and stories we hear in our groups Both Parents Matter tell a different story - and they're heartbreaking 💔
📺 Watch Panorama on BBC 1, Monday at 8pm, as our CEO - Sam Morfey - calls for greater transparency, accountability and fairness from the CMS — and proper recognition of the circumstances and continuing role of both parents.
#Panorama #CMS
bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002zlr…
Shared parenting is hard. The CMS can make it harder, so much harder than it should be, leaving parents penniless and giving up on the will to live, when they can no longer afford to live.
Check out BBC's Panorama on Monday 8pm BBC1 which asks whether the Child Maintenance Service is failing both parents and children. Both Parents Matter is proud to have represented paying parents on the programme.
bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002zlr…
#Panorama #CMS #ChildMaintenance
Frances Carr retweeted
I've produced hundreds of posts, and countless hours of podcasts to try and highlight how bogus political ideology erases male victims of abuse.
But the single most effective image that represents how modern society sees male victims, remains this iconic document.
It's perfect.
Frances Carr retweeted
Can't help but admire the prescience of @BelvedereBrooks, who in our podcast (released the day before this announcement), made the point that:
"We need less talk of masculinity, and more talk of apprenticeships."
24 hours later and boom, the PM announces this incredible policy.
Frances Carr retweeted
Are you tired of the endless, male deficit view of young men and boys?
The gloomy, cynical view, that only sees men and boys as being problems, and never as having problems?
Always the male perpetrators, and never the victim…
Always the privileged, and never the harmed…
Always to be sneered at, and never celebrated…
The societal insistence that boys are sponges for negativity, just waiting to be brainwashed by the so-called “mansophere”.
“Slugs, snails and puppy dog tails, that’s what boys are”, as the nursery rhyme goes.
Well, I believe boys deserve better.
Much better.
So I ask you: what does a more boy positive conversation look like?
And how do we make it happen?
What do you think?
New podcast with award-winning policy advisor for men and boys @BelvedereBrooks out now!
youtube.com/watch?v=ep6WOiIy…
Frances Carr retweeted
Here it is. My manifesto for the 2026 Clacton By-Election. It's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Join me, clean up Clacton and let's make 13th August Bin Day! #VoteBinface #VoteyMcVoteface #YesWeTinCan




























