“Eros is cosmic hunger for ever more value.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
Free live teaching with Marc, Nov 7, 2 pm ET / 8 pm CET: Eros & Existential Risk. join.whowemustbecome.com/ero…
“Eros desires ever more aliveness, ever more contact, ever more wholeness and ever more value.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
Free live teaching with Marc, Nov 7, 2 pm ET / 8 pm CET: Eros & Existential Risk. join.whowemustbecome.com/ero…
“Virtually all forms of acting out, addiction, depression, violence, and abuse are rooted in the loss of aliveness—what the mystics allusively call the fall of Eros.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni & Dr. Kristina Kincaid, A Return to Eros
“When we are not filled with the aliveness of Eros, we try to fill up the emptiness with pseudo Eros.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni & Dr. Kristina Kincaid, A Return to Eros
“All failures in ethics are rooted in a breakdown of Eros.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
“Our crisis is a birth.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni
Free live teaching with Marc, Nov 7, 2 pm ET / 8 pm CET: Eros & Existential Risk. join.whowemustbecome.com/ero…
Is value real?
Marc Gafni, Iain McGilchrist and Zak Stein on the value beneath all our values, and the way between fundamentalism and cynicism.
📚 First Principles and First Values: amazon.de/First-Principles-V…
📚 The Matter with Things: amazon.de/Matter-Things-Brai…
“The resolution of crisis is always a new configuration of intimacy.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
“Crisis is an evolutionary driver. All crises are a crisis of intimacy. There needs to be a birth of a new intimacy.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni
Free live teaching with Marc, Nov 7, 2 pm ET / 8 pm CET: Eros & Existential Risk. join.whowemustbecome.com/ero…
“Just like a baby will die if not held in love, so too our world—even with all the resources, intelligence, and technology at our disposal—will die if not held in outrageous love.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni & Dr. Kristina Kincaid, A Return to Eros
“All crisis is a crisis of intimacy and a crisis of coherence.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
“Existential risk is sourced in a failure of Eros.”
—Dr. Marc Gafni, The Phenomenology of Eros (forthcoming)
You're not supposed to fall in love only once.
Falling in love is the quality of being alive.
The person you fell in love with yesterday isn't the person who's alive today.
Your deepest wound has something to say.
"I take my pathology and I turn it into prophecy." — Dr. Marc Gafni
Live tomorrow, 7 PM CEST: whowemustbecome.com/podcast
Something in your future is calling you.
"Telos means there's a future purpose that calls me in the present to respond to it."
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"I can only heal in a profound and fundamental way by recovering a memory of my future." — Dr. Marc Gafni
Going back is necessary. It isn't enough.
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Your wound isn't just what happened to you. It's where your capacity to feel was hurt.
Transformed, it becomes the door to your depth, your wonder, your greatness.
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Self-help asks: What can I grab more of?
Transformation asks: Who can I become, and what can I pour into the world?
One leaves you empty. The other makes you alive.
Live with Dr. Marc Gafni, Sun Oct 4, 7 PM CEST: whowemustbecome.com/podcast
You can never look away from the crisis.
But global action paralysis comes from misdiagnosing the root cause. The meta-crisis is a failure of superstructure.
That diagnosis is radically hopeful: there is a way through.
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