Unapologetichotmess ⁷⁼¹ ⊙⊝⊜ ⟭⟬E ARE B⟬⟭CK

If you’re thinking of following me — or want to continue following me — here’s a little transparency about what you can expect from #CoffeeDateWithBTS BTS 💜 I’m OT7. I love BTS as seven individual, imperfect human beings, not as characters I’ve created in my head. 💜 I will celebrate them loudly. I will also think critically. I don’t believe loving someone requires agreeing with every choice they make, nor do I believe one choice I dislike requires me to rewrite everything I know about them. Nuance & discussion 💜 I value nuance. Very few things in life are entirely black and white. 💜 There will be opinions here, sometimes strong ones. You’re completely free to disagree with me. Respectful disagreement doesn’t frighten me, and I don’t need everyone in my community to think exactly as I do. ❌ You won’t find dogpiles, harassment or public punishment campaigns here. I block freely and quietly rather than giving harmful content more attention. Privacy, consent & respect 💜 What BTS choose to share is enough for me. Their right to privacy and consent doesn’t disappear because they’re famous. You won’t find: ❌ airport content. That includes official press and brand airport content. On my Substack I’ve written at length about why I don’t participate in airport culture: [substack.com/@coffeedate0613…] ❌ stalking, leaked information or other invasive content. ❌ AI-generated versions of BTS. ❌ shipping or speculation about their relationships or private lives. Paid content 💜 If BTS and their team have chosen to make something paid content, I respect that. ❌ I won’t redistribute membership content, paid broadcasts or unofficial streams of paid concerts. Mental health & community 💜 I care about mental health and wellbeing, including the effect fandom and social media can have on my own. 💜 I don’t believe every argument requires my participation or every trending topic deserves my attention. Sometimes the healthiest response for me is simply to close the app. There is no one correct way to ARMY 💜 When BTS address ARMY in lives, concerts, captions and interviews, there are no conditions. They are the only 7 people who get to decide who is ARMY. 💜 I don’t gatekeep fandom. How long you’ve been here, how much merch you own, how often you stream, whether you vote, how many concerts you’ve attended or how much BTS knowledge you have doesn’t determine whether you’re ARMY enough. 💜 Go to a concert and sit quietly absorbing every second if that’s what brings you joy. Dance your arse off if that’s what brings you joy. Cry. Sing. Do whatever makes the experience yours, provided your enjoyment doesn’t prevent somebody else from having theirs. 💜 You don’t have to prove your love for BTS to me or anybody else. Following & follow-backs 💜 I rarely follow back automatically. I’m extremely particular about what I add to my TL and like to spend some time looking through an account before I follow it. 💜 I learned early in my fandom experience that blindly following back wasn’t a good way to build the TL I wanted. If I don’t follow you back, please don’t take it personally. It isn’t a judgement on you; I’m simply very deliberate about curating the space I spend time in. And the important stuff… 💜 There will be silliness, terrible jokes, music, Coffee Dates, community projects, Namjooning, pretty skies and cats. Definitely cats. 😻 💜 There will be an entirely reasonable amount of excessive affection for seven Korean men. I’m not interested in building the biggest account I can. I’m interested in building a healthy, ethical space. If that sounds like somewhere you’d enjoy being, welcome.

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And all 7 of them together... Life changing in ways that I'll never be able to thank them for. This is why I vote #ARIASBTS

And finally, right before the #ARIASBTS voting deadline, this one... He showcases eternal personal growth, deep devotion to current interests, intense love of the people who matter to him, seizing life with childlike wonder. He's taught me not to be complacent, to try things even though I might fail, to ignore negativity in the people around me. He's shown that being grounded and respectful doesn't go out of style and I have learned so much from him.

This one has encouraged me to look at the world with wonder, to value the quirky, to savour the old and live on your own terms. He's inspired me to seek out spontaneous experiences in life, to play and to love openly without worrying about what anyone thinks. I admire his courage. #ARIASBTS

This one has shown how brightly you can shine when you embrace every part of yourself. The power, the gentleness, the kindness, the care, the work ethic, the insecurity and the confidence all sit comfortably, side by side. He's warmth and authenticity all in a small but spectacular package. #ARIASBTS

This one inspires me to care for my mental health, work hard, embrace my introversion without apology, love quietly and he gives me permission to be outrageously silly when I feel comfortable with the people I love. #ARIASBTS

This one shows me the value of dedication and persistence. He laughs loud, lives loud, loves loud and doesn't hide his fears. Basking in his sunshine is an honour. #ARIASBTS

This one inspires me to laugh at myself, to value rest, to love myself, to embrace my passions regardless of what others think of them, to love whole-heartedly and to hold onto my inner child #ARIASBTS

This one inspires me to appreciate art, lyricism, little creatures, nature, dimples and intelligence. #ARIASBTS