find a guy that can rail you like a naughty princess, and can also sit at home on the couch watching tv.

No matter the size of the mountain all that matters is what’s at the summit.

Abuse comes in many flavors. It doesn't always leave marks you can see, and doesn't follow traditional flows. As a victim of coercive control and manipulation for years... it sucks... but the other option of accepting that behavior is worse.

Got my iPhone 18.. took a picture of the night sky.. those are stars.

hopefully better than mine.. my ex has managed to delay court ordered mediation for 6 months.

Intentionality isn’t hard… it really isn’t.

sex happens a couple of times a weeks, the hand holding, ass smacks, hand holding, etc happens countless times a day.

Agreed for sure.

There is no cure for the type of abuse that was focused on you. The only cure is that you lower your standard to tolerate his behavior.

yes.

I just got with tell her she is f’ing hot or sexy. Never had her say I wish he called me cute.

In all honesty are any of the 3 schools bad?

When something happens over and over again it’s a pattern. Sadly winning national championships is not that pattern.

No good/decent guy is passing that up.

That called treating another person like a decent human being.

I knew downtown smelled better today .

It’s like the wand chooses the wizard..

I theory is let’s promote the conversation and dialogue, and as soon as someone says… things like.. no, prove it, etc.. challenging the conversation before it happens .. the whole thing shuts down. Many times shutting it down is intentional as they don’t want to be accountable

The correct make response.. it tell me more.. I would like to know more. It is happening and it is happening at employer X.

That sounds orgasmic..