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imagine doing this bit by @GianmarcoSoresi but earnestly
We need to talk about the accusation "Matt Gaetz is a pedophile."
I know little about Matt Gaetz, and don't have an opinion about whether he is a qualified nominee to be Attorney General. I'm also not here to make a pro-Trump or anti-Trump political point; I want to address an issue that's bigger than the political flap of the week.
I know a lot about the manipulation of language. There's a nasty one going on here that people need to be aware of, because when a propaganda tactic is successful it tends to get repeated.
There isn't a single good term in English for people who are post-pubertal but below the legal age of consent or majority; for the rest of this discussion, I'm going to refer to them as "tweeners".
I'm going to stipulate one thing for purposes of this rant: when Matt Gaetz was an adult man, he had sex with a tweener girl (the specific allegation I keep hearing is that she was 17; note however that in a majority of U.S. jurisdictions age of consent is 16). If that's not true, the analysis I'm about to do stops being very interesting.
Now let's talk about the word "pedophile". If you ask your friendly neighborhood AI what that word means it's going to tell you that a pedophile is a person who desires to have sex with prepubescent children.
Unless the society you live in has a major totalitarian episode, it is not likely that you will ever encounter anything that is as evil, sick, and degenerate as what pedophiles do to children. The concept horrifies people. I'm going to assume it horrifies you.
Because the concept is horrifying, "pedophile" can be used as a propaganda word of power.
Now let's get back to the case at hand. How likely is a 17-year old girl to be prepubescent?
Note that by asking this question I'm not trying to make an excuse for Gaetz's behavior. There are reasons we put a taboo on sexual contact between adult men and nubile women below the age of majority. I am stipulating that Matt Gaetz is probably guilty of statutory rape (not certain because of jurisdictional variations) and should be in jail.
But. The distinction between pedophilia and what I stipulate Gaetz was doing (technically, "ephebophilia") is an important one.
Ephebophilia ranges from being a mere malum prohibitum to a minor crime, depending largely on how sexually and psychologically mature the victim is. It's not the deeply perverted, sick, damaging thing pedophilia is.
People who run around yelling "Matt Gaetz is a pedophile" are doing something harmful and wrong, and should be called on it. They are confusing behaviors with very different moral weights, and they are doing it to mess with your head.
Their aim is to use the current atmosphere of moral panic about pedophilia among the rich and powerful
to recruit you into a consensus demand that Matt Gaetz be lynched.
This is dark propaganda. This is bad.
It is not very relevant to my logic whether that moral panic is justified or not. I'm not even going to state a position on that, because it would be distracting.
I'm also not going to state a position on what the upper age limit on tweeners should be, because that's not relevant either.
You should ask yourself: do you want to live in the kind of society where men who have sex with tweener girls can be equated with men who rape infants, and destroyed that way?
I advise against this. I'm not going to write down a detailed argument here, except to point out that it would create an opening for people who want to normalize actual pedophilia. In fact, it may already be doing that, and I wish I were sure that nobody is doing this intentionally. There are some very evil people with very long time horizons out there.
If you don't want to live in the kind of society where power word "pedophile" can be used to lynch people who are not in fact pedophiles, you should (1) stop abusing the word if you were doing so, and (2) talk down other people when they do it.
Thank you for your attention.
"Vi er parate til at fremvise bevis fra systemet for at vi har ret indtil vi tjekker eksternt og det viser sig at vi tager fejl" virker som noget der burde føre til et generelt gennemsyn af VAR systemet.
Dobbeltfejl i Brøndby: VAR kan ikke gøre andet bold.dk/fodbold/klubber/broe…
Kan godt forstå hvis Chiakha er lidt knotten over at to mål i torsdag ikke køber så meget som et minut mod AGF, selvom Andreas Cornelius løb tør med tyve minutter igen.
Altid irriterende at indkassere på et hjørnespark, men den her starter med at Diks er fejlplaceret som venstreback. I stedet for at cleare med venstre ud over sidelinjen er hans naturlige reaktion at prikke til bolden med højre og give et hjørne væk.
Ah, strømsvigt.
Ikke at der var nogen der så alle FCK spillere juble med Pantelis, hørte Ortved sige "Vi kan ikke se om det er Gabriel der har scoret" og tænkte "cut lyden, før det bliver værre".
Alligevel noget af en beslutning med Sander i dag. Meget pres på i den her kamp, stort fysisk tryk, det er ikke en kamp man har valgt fordi man vil sikre en succesoplevelse for ham. Det er sink or swim.
Nogle marketingsbureauer tager bare flere chancer end andre.
Jeg har lige købt nyt vådfoder til katten og sloganet er simpelthen "As Good As It Looks".
Tøfting: "Med det venstreben han har, skal han så ikke klappe til den første gang?"
Altså, han sparker også ved siden af med det venstreben han har. Ved ikke hvor meget bedre det ville blive af at gøre afslutningen sværere.
Hrm.
Sønderjyske er hullet som en si: Løser det kollektivt bold.dk/fodbold/stillinger/s…
Håber da at det kvarter ekstra man sparede Cornelius ved ikke at sætte ham ind i pausen bærer frugt på søndag.
Ah, Huescas ud. Det giver mening, han har vel været en af dem som... bare har været lidt middelmådig uden hverken at slå ud godt eller dårligt.
Vent, ikke "giver mening", det omvendte. Giver ikke mening.
Vildt.
Vildt, vildt, vildt.
Vildt at det der alligevel kun er den næststørste fejl begået af et dansk hold i en europæisk kamp i aften.
Det er næsten som om dommeren ikke kender til reglen om at man ikke kan give gult i det første kvarter af en kamp. Weird.




