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Once you pass your 20s as a man - certainly your 30s (which is a transition period) - a romance where you "grow and build a life together" isn't realistically an option anymore
You've likely already built a life for yourself, and developed psychologically to the point where finding someone who will help you form an identity as a man is unlikely
You only have two types of relationships remaining:
- companionship (generally a peer-aged woman who you enjoy spending time with and can support each other's independently developed lives)
- patronage (generally a younger woman you have a polarized but role-based and paternalistic relationship with, who you take care of)
While very different in nature, both of these are fundamentally pragmatic relationships - the idealistic, wholly romantic type disappears, because it can only exist when there is no certainty of who we are and what we want in our woman
Even these marriages, when they do not fail from their own idealism, evolve as we age - at their worst into a comfortable yet dysfunctional complacency; at their best into a synthesis of the two other types. A man who commands authority emerges from the carefree boy, and the girl who once fell simply for his fun and charisma now also comes to respect him as a leader. Yet this girl is also a resilient woman now who's earned her own stature through her wisdom and time in the trenches with you
Almost ironically, this marriage, as it loses its own idealism, ends up emerging as a kind of amour others idealize as time goes on - a foundation of foolish puppy love, blooming into a "king and queen" type partnership, with mutual trust and respect for each others' place within it
Be grateful if you are one of the lucky ones who found someone at a young enough age where you could experience an innocent love worthy of maturation like this
Getting rarer and rarer to find as time
goes on, and people delude themselves into thinking they can wait forever to find it. Because they can't. The trend is towards transactional relationships for a reason: the ship has sailed on the rest
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Kinda crazy how all the people who say they wanted to ban all the guns...
...are now bringing guns to protests and demanding that everyone respect the 2nd amendment
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Nick Fuentes responds to the horrific killing of Iryna Zarutska.
“I’d rather be alive and too racist than dead and not racist enough.”
It's a good time to bid alts. We're already in the basement. What's another 20% dip when we're down 900%
We could go to almost 98k before I'd get really worried. If you're new here, enjoy the ride. It's time to add to your position or buckle down for the next 2-3 months. Define your endgame amount and stick to it. Round-tripping is awful. Goodluck
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This false confusion is quickly resolved when you exclude "lying" from free speech.
The left wants to ban truth. The right wants to ban lies.
"MUH BOF SIDES"
spare me
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JD Vance just CONFIRMED there are as many as 40 MILLION illegals in America and they got housing. This drove up the cost of our homes and rent
“0:Why did housing get so unaffordable for American citizens? Two big problems
- Number one, I already talked about interest rates were too high
- Number two, you had way too many people in this country who are competing against American citizens for scarce homes, and that's the illegal immigration problem
Why has housing leveled off over the past six months? I really believe the main driver is you've had negative net migration into the United States for the first time in 60 years in this country.
You cannot flood the United States of America with 20, 30, 40 MILLION people who have no legal right to be here, have them compete against young American families for homes and not expect the price to skyrocket.
It's as simple as supply and demand. You increase the demand, you're going to increase the price.”
