Voice Over Artist ,PhotographerπΈ, social Media Handler, Model @Dxcmodelacademy, An Animator. Man United 1999 Treble winner, 2024 FA Cup winner,
Lagos, Nigeria
Joined October 2018
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Hi Iβm Sekumade Adedapo, a Fashion Model who brings authenticity and natural energy to every set.
My journey includes campaigns for brands and and Editorial magazines Iβll like to work it.
Iβm dedicated to embodying diverse narratives and always seeking new creative challenges.
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Ask a girl about the ex-boyfriend she can never forget, and she will narrate the story of the guy who manipulated her, subjected her to abuse, and treated her like a cheap object.
The guy who bought her chocolates, flowers, and expensive items is the one she considers forgettable.
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The woman you are taking seriously as your main girlfriend is just a side chick to another man, while the woman you treat as your side chick is a serious girlfriend to someone else.
That is how the game works, but you must avoid being the foolish man who shows up with flowers.
Many of you itβs only with mouth your girl has told you that she loves you, she has never proven it with effort.
When youβre cajoling and begging her to pay you a visit, trust me youβre dating yourself or she has other guys sheβs dating, not just you alone.
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Itβs definitely a movie but this is what is happening in marriages of today.
Poor women who donβt have an ounce of love to give but only looking for rich men to use to escape poverty, this is what they do all the time.
Thatβs why itβs very important to be observant about who youβre taking to be your βWIFEβ
This is the tragic experience many Nigerian men who marry for aesthetics face...you think cause you have money you can get true love
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Weβre not saying a woman must earn the same amount of money her husband earns at work, but what weβre saying is that she shouldnβt automatically assume that because sheβs a woman all the financial responsibilities in the home should be on her man.
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Bal RON d'or ππβ½ retweeted
Many people are married to their worst enemies but claim they married their best friend. Your actual best friend would not watch you kill yourself to pay bills when they can join their income with yours to sort bills.
Being best friend is not about gossip and wearing matching outfit. When it comes to responsibility, would they give all of themselves for the relationship?
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Getting married to a virgin automatically defeats the issue of DNA test.
The same women wey dey cry βNigerian men hate usβ are the ones wey first started the open mockery of providers, the constant comparison with foreign men, and the attitude of βmy money is my money, his money is our money.β Once foreign women (or even African women from other places) start showing better respect and less entitlement, some Nigerian men simply move. Instead of asking why the respect left, una dey spin it as pure hatred. The lizards came because una fetched the ant-infested firewood yourself.
Look at the pattern: men who still want Nigerian wives are the ones getting called broke or stingy for setting basic standards, while the women who refuse to cook, contribute, or even show basic courtesy online keep demanding more. That constant one-sided expectation is what people are reacting to. If every sentence from men sounds harsh to you, check the sentences many women have been posting about men for the last 5β6 years. The pushback is loud because the entitlement got loud first.
One day, Nigerian men will tell us why they hate Nigerian women so much.
You can feel the hate in every sentence they make. Itβs becoming very concerning.
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Any working woman who publicly declares βmy money is my moneyβ while watching her husband struggle to carry the entire financial burden of the family is nothing more than a leech.
Marriage is not a social media performance. If you earn money, that money belongs to the family. Either contribute or stop pretending you are a wife. Men who still marry women after they have already made this clear are the real fools.
Once the red flag is that obvious, leave. No amount of prayer or hope will change it.
Coming on the internet to do a clown dance and declare you will never contribute financially to your own family, only shows you are a very useless leech.
To imply you will rather watch your husband struggle and your family suffer, because your money is your money, only shows you are a dangerous witch.
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This one make sense well-well. Plenty people rush to βown houseβ early, lock all their money inside block and cement, then start struggling to even buy fuel or stock business. If that N100m can generate serious yearly returns to cover rent and still leave the capital intact, why stress? Liquidity > status for now. Build when your money is already working for you, not the other way round. Rent is not punishment if your capital is free to grow.
If you are still starting life, rent my bro.
Owning a house so early in your life will tie down money you need for other things.
Why spend N100m building/buying a house when you can invest that money and then use the ROI from your investment to fund your rent.
If you lock N100m with Opay and get N18m annually, you can afford rent in almost every neighborhood in Nigeria while your N100m liquid cash still remains intact.
Rent>>>>>>>>>
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Youβll never see a lady that was raised in a wealthy home come online to spit this trash, itβs always the broke and hungry ones that move
How many Nigerians earn up to 500k or over 500k as their salary ?? What job do you do that makes you earn more than 500k in a month ??
People like you are money sβ¬xual wh0res that hide under relationships looking for true love when itβs obvious that youβre looking for a Rich simp to take you out of poverty.
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This is what you get when you date poor, hungry and entitled women.
Women like this were raised in extreme poverty and lack thatβs why any opportunity they get to date a rich man who they arenβt in love with, theyβll take it swiftly.
Theyβll end up feeding the man with crumbs of affection, starve him intimacy and raise Bastards in his home.
Run away from girls raised in poor homes!!!
This is what you get when you date poor, hungry and entitled women.
Women like this were raised in extreme poverty and lack thatβs why any opportunity they get to date a rich man who they arenβt in love with, theyβll take it swiftly.
Theyβll end up feeding the man with crumbs of affection, starve him intimacy and raise Bastards in his home.
Run away from girls raised in poor homes!!!
I'm currently in a relationship where he loves and provides everything I needed but I don't really love him.
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βBelieve whatever you want to believeβ
She has found your replacement.
When money isnβt the main survival tool, genuine affection, lower material demands, and the desire to recreate a strong father-figure for future kids become more likely. The fourth point is the quiet trade-off: higher standards plus willingness to voice disagreement means the man has to actually lead, not just provide.
I have dated girls from poor homes, and I have dated girls from rich homes.
The girls from rich home had somethings in common.
(1) They love their dad, and they donβt fake their love for you.
(2) Theyβll hardly bill you.
(3) Theyβll push you healthily to become another version of their dad for their kids.
(4) you have to be a strong willed man to marry them. They question things they donβt understand, and they donβt hide their feelings.
I will talk about my experience with the poor ones later.
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