Esther T retweeted
Everyone’s being purposely obtuse. If I pay you for soft glam and you later find out I got married… so??? I paid for what you did. If I now come to you complaining that the makeup didn’t last then that’s on me!
So you think paying bills is easy? If the man doesn’t pay the bills, all those activities the lady does would exist.
In some home this is how it works.
HUSBAND
Works outside the home
Pays the bills
Sleeps
WIFE
Works outside the home
Cooks dinner
Plans meals
Grocery shops
Puts groceries away
Packs lunches
Washes dishes
Cleans the kitchen
Sweeps and mops
Vacuums
Dusts
Cleans bathrooms
Cleans bedrooms
Changes sheets and makes beds
Picks up clutter
Takes out trash
Does laundry
Folds and puts away clothes
Buys household supplies and toiletries
Makes bottles
Feeds and burps the baby
Changes diapers
Bathes the children
Dresses the children
Does their hair
Brushes their teeth
Handles bedtime routines
Gets up with them at night
Comforts them when they cry
Gets them ready in the morning
Makes breakfast
Packs school/daycare bags
Handles drop-offs and pickups
Helps with homework
Reads and plays with them
Supervises the children
Handles discipline
Teaches manners and life skills
Handles tantrums/meltdowns
Keeps track of school events
Signs school paperwork
Communicates with teachers/daycare
Attends school meetings
Schedules doctor/dentist appointments
Takes children to appointments
Keeps track of medications
Cares for sick children
Shops for clothes and shoes
Keeps track of clothing sizes
Buys diapers, wipes and formula
Preps birthdays and holidays
Buys gifts
Plans family activities
Handles extracurricular activities
Provides emotional support
Gives affection and reassurance
Keeps track of everyone's schedules
Remembers what everyone needs
Handles the household mental load
Still expected to be a wife/partner
And they jump up and down when they give them ring too o
Hariho akabi!
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Esther T retweeted
The crazy thing is that even if an opportunity comes now, you still need money to grab it.
Honestly it’s giving Nancy Clancy. What do you mean you are depressed then go ahead to set up camera and film, with a full set of nails on makeup.
I just love the kabaka
You have a valid point
Social media has kinda ruined whole generation. Men are out here drooling over women they'll never even meet, and women are stressing out over lifestyles they can never pay for. Husbands are losing interest in their own wives because they can't stop looking at strangers online, and wives are losing respect for their husbands because they're always measuring their normal life against someone else's highlight reel. Regular marriages now feel like total flops, loyal partners feel like they aren't enough, and cozy homes start to feel like traps. We've built a group of people who mix up basic lust with actual love, expensive stuff with true happiness, and random online likes with feeling good about themselves. And the scariest part is that people are messing up the genuinely good things they already have just because they're hooked on the fake lives of total strangers. Social media isn't just wasting your hours. It's actually training you to dislike your own life.
Banange this is the point where you appreciate a partner who understands that everyone needs a break
If you are married, please read this. It’s very easy to overlook this kind of arrangement in marriages.
The result is that you will grow distant from each other every day and your wife will secretly start resenting you.
What is perceived as “wife duties” vs “husband duties” in a household could easily be what’s breaking your marriage.
Please find balance. ❤️


























