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Men's mental & emotional health without the bullshit, offering tailored workplace mental health training for all & individual coaching. Founded by @toniwriter

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Joined March 2020
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It is our 20th anniversary today since becoming a charity. We have launched an online Directory of Services (Oak Book) for male victims of domestic abuse. Thank you to everyone who has supported us on our journey. bit.ly/3xzlgSO
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To all the boys, and men who have been affected by sexual violence you are not alone💜Our helpline team can offer support & information about local support services in your area thesurvivorstrust.org/our-he… *Content warning - discusses rape & sexual violence bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-ma…
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Since 2017 we’ve offered Equal Parental Leave to all our people, but how does it work and what benefits does it bring? Listen to this @dadbloguk #podcast to hear what Aviva dad Andrew has to say.
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I wonder how many of those guys die by suicide as the only way they see they can escape abuse, or due to emotional abuse, especially the slow but relentless drip drip of putdowns eroding their self-esteem? Perhaps we'll never know. nitter.gq/ForOurMen/status/14213…
We see a lot of people sharing the old statistic of "84 men a week" die by suicide in the UK but latest figures show it's now sadly 94. When was the last time you checked in on a mate or colleague, or allowed yourself to recognise that you need help yourself? #ForOurMen
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Any chance someone will read out their names in Parliament?
We see a lot of people sharing the old statistic of "84 men a week" die by suicide in the UK but latest figures show it's now sadly 94. When was the last time you checked in on a mate or colleague, or allowed yourself to recognise that you need help yourself? #ForOurMen
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Powerful. Everyone deserves the right to open up about how they genuinely feel and this includes those working in emergency services. We can do all we can but it must be top down as well! Thanks for all you do. Take care. #afcb #talkingcherries #tacklethesilence #mentalhealth
We love the emergency services/military but we have to face the fact that, as organisations, we're not just passively allowing service suicides but very often creating the circumstances that lead people to it &we're tired of being told to 'be quiet/play politics' on the subject😒
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Replying to @mrjamesob
@mrjamesob This is from the Ofsted report, 50% and 74% is not "very rare", but more to the point, it is utterly unacceptable to victim blame in this manner and re-iterate one of the key barriers boys face when reporting abuse.
Distracted from work by a bit of idiocy / at best simplistic thinking from @mrjamesob who feels young male victims of sexual harassment / unwanted pics are ‘very rare’ and asked the mum whose son was traumatised by a pic from a girl ‘are you sure he didn’t ask for it ?’ Really.
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This! 🥺😞 @peer_talk @menhear @UKMensSheds @ForOurMen @DigNorth @LSCFT_CPET we need robust networks of support - and to ‘normalise’ accessing same #StrongerTogether
Read some disturbing evidence from the office of national statistics. Male paramedics and clinicians are 75% more likely to take their own life than any other health care professionals. If their was ever a time to talk this is it !!Watch out for one another be there to support 🚑
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Great piece by Coalition member @_NatashaDevon >>>
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Dear Men, If you've been subjected to sexual violence, know that it wasn't your fault. Even if you became aroused during, it doesn't mean you wanted/liked it; it's a physiological reaction. Nor 'should' you have been able to fight them off, simply because you're a man. 🙏🏻💕
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The group is open to all men from staff to frontline roles across England, Wales and Scotland, as well as prison services, NCA, CNC and MOD etc. We also have a WhatsApp group 🙏🏻 Please DM for details 💪🏻
I know you get these tweets every week but tonight marks 2 months of running my virtual chat for men in emergency services & it’s honestly one of the best things I think I’ve done in recent years!! The conversations we have & feedback I receive tells me I’m on the right path 🥳
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New Dad (child under 2) or about to become a Dad? Join our session at 7pm tonight with the amazing @dadmattersuk to talk all things Dad and coping when you’ve got little ones. Sign up here - dadmatters.org.uk/join-our-m…
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Men = 70% of police, 96% fire, 62% ambo, 77% coastguard & 52% prison service. Men = 75% of suicides. If we're not specifically discussing male mental health in the above & clinical differences of it therein, trauma & suicide prevention training will be minimally effective.
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Dear Men, Some of you might be drinking yourself into oblivion tonight. Maybe without your family. Maybe you’re always the “strong” or “funny” one in your group. Maybe you’re the one everyone else turns to. You’re allowed to ask for & receive support! Pls don’t kill yourself🙏🏻
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Recently announced 👇🏼👇🏼 We have partnered with @toniwriter and @ForOurMen. An incredible person who continues to support Police Officers and more! Very privileged to partner up with such an amazing woman! Look out because here we come 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
*POLICE* Myself & @LtdBreathe have partnered & started to build suicide prevention workshops to deliver directly to police leaders (Sgts & above). We're not waiting for permission to help 🙏🏻 If you want to be kept in the loop please tweet/DM either of us & please RT! 💪🏻💙
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If you need a sign not to kill yourself right now, let this be it. Life can get better. It won’t be easy or quick & there’ll be lots more bumps in the road but things can change & there is good help out there. You’re not a burden. You matter. We love you. Please stay 🙏🏻
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Sadly it’s now 94; almost 14 a day. The numbers of male suicide increased in 2018, both due to societal reasons & the test for a coroner to record a verdict of suicide was lowered from a criminal, to a civilian threshold. Young (18-24) & middle aged (42-49) are most at risk 😔
84 men a week in the uk end there life by suicide, so that’s 12 a day.. It’s the single biggest killer of men in the uk under 50. So please always remember this before you try tell someone to Man Up
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🎥 Roman Kemp to front young male mental health & suicide documentary I had the pleasure of filming with @romankemp at the end of last year and I could see how much making this film ‘Our Silent Emergency’ meant to him. #SuicidePrevention @bbcthree ℹ️➡️ bbc.com/news/entertainment-a…
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I'm so exceptionally proud of you @philspencer1316 for sharing your family's story & humbled you chose to share it on @ForOurMen 🙏🏻 You're an incredible man, husband, dad AND cop💪🏻
Im a man, husband, Dad & a ‘Cop’ Here is our story for #TimeToTalk day. It took me 3yrs to put ‘pen to paper’ It nearly broke us 💔 @TimetoChange @toniwriter @HopeVirgo @jordache1 @MindCharity @OscarKiloUK #anorexia #ChildrensMentalHealthWeek forourmen.com/falling-from-t…
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Er... @RishiSunak - did you forget a parent group?
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