Solitude

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Every time I see many of us tagging @Dhavidote in our financial requests, I hardly see people taking a moment to simply check up on him. Good day, sir, @Dhavidote ❤️ I pray that life continues to be kind to you, sir, and that you never lack reasons to smile. Today, from a genuinely sincere heart, I’d also love to gift you ₦10,000. I know it’s not much compared to the generosity you constantly show others, but I believe that even givers deserve to receive sometimes. Please, sir, don’t turn down this little gesture. Allow someone to put a smile on your face too. ❤️

You don quote those gifs up to ten times today and none gree bang. Let it go nau.

If you are a Nigerian and you attend a concert hosted by any Nigerian artist this December, you are a foöl. I have not seen a completely useless industry like the entertainment industry here. The reason they remain relevant is that we don’t keep them on their toes. So they do as they like, come online to do giveaways whenever it pleases them, and flaunt their luxurious lifestyles and vehicles for you people to debate about who is richer and who drives more expensive cars. The radio silence from your celebrities is very intentional. Since Tinubu came into power, Wizkid, Burna Boy, Asake, Tems, Yemi Alade, Tiwa Savage, Ayra Starr, Rema, Adekunle Gold, Zlatan, BNXN, and EVERY other person in that industry have said absolutely nothing about the government. Not a single criticism, not even an attempt to encourage their fans to get their PVCs. Lmao, they can’t even publicly tell their fans to vote for a candidate because most of them are friends with people in Aso Rock. You see how I did not mention the likes of Davido, Olamide, Ajebo Hustlers, Teni, Dandizzy, and Duncan Mighty? These ones are not even subtle about their support for APC and Tinubu. They are either friends with ST, take APC gigs, or dine with Tinubu himself. If not for the fact that we are very unserious people, no one should be taking Davido seriously after that gimmick he pulled during the Osun State election. All of them in that industry don’t rate you people, especially those of you who act like fatherless children defending some of them on social media every time. The election is in January. Most of them will travel out of the country, then, after the election, they’ll come back to host shows, collect money from you people who are suffering, and come on stage at 3 a.m. after keeping you standing from 10 p.m. They might even kick some of you in the face. But I guess Nigerians have a humiliation kink. If you hold these people accountable and keep them on their toes, they will be on their best behaviour. But then, there’s nothing like cancel culture here anyway. Nigerian celebrities, pastors, and politicians are God’s favourites. They hit the jackpot by having people like you in their lives.

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No be for my face una go white wash Naira Marley sha. Una dey craze.

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💯. Weight loss is not complicated at all. If you know what you are doing, less is more.

Lmaooo, what is this white washing of Naira Marley and Zinoleesky you people are trying to do before our very eyes? Even if you people assume we have selective amnesia, at least have some respect for Mohbad. Since 2023, his remains has not been buried after he was exhumed and you people are doing this? Marlian records bullied Mohbad. That’s a fact! There are videos online to back this up. Even on set with Zlatan, Samlarry tried to bully him. Mohbad released and entire song that was a diss track to Marlian music and because you guys think the coast is clear, you want to just white wash his bullies just like that? Naira Marley even made a tweet yesterday announcing Marlian Fest for next month. Acting as though he’s one of the victims of circumstances, and you lot are in the quotes and comment section gassing him like we didn’t lose a whole human being in 2023. Mohbad deserves justice. He deserves to be buried with respect. Those who bullied him should be held accountable for it. More importantly, investigations should be conducted on those who actually k!led him and they should be prosecuted. I know a lot of you lack comprehension, I didn’t say NM k!lled Mohbad but he bullied him and made him a shadow of himself. The whole label in fact. It is not okay to move on like that without addressing that. Haba, you people should fear God at least!

So I went to a military boarding school and my parents spent so much money on me to get through that, so I spent all my teenage years overcompensating and making up for that, because I’m the only person in my family they had invested so much on educationally. So when I was about going to uni, I was tired of that life and wanted to be me. The only way to do that was to rebel. My parents saw me as a very innocent teenager and I wasn’t that guy. If there’s one thing about me, I always make sure to let people know what I’m capable of, so they never get disappointed when they see a “new” side of me. The day my day told me he was disappointed in me for something very mundane, that was the day I had full autonomy/freedom. I was so happy but he didn’t know that. Like I said, they’ll always be fine, trust me.

Why is everyone currently talking to their ex? What is in the air??

After all is said and done, the only way our voices will be heard is through voting. By extension, on the ballot papers. So, I’m reminding those of you who are yet to collect your PVCs from INEC, including those who have completed their voter registration transfers, to please visit the nearest INEC office at your earliest convenience, preferably this week, and get it sorted. The election is in January. Your vote is your power. Don’t let anyone or anything stand in the way of your right to choose your next leaders. #GoNigeria #UseYourPower

WAKE UP AND EXERCISE!!!🫵🏾

No worry, Wizkid don pay him dues, na why e no send anybody. Doings dey him resume pa. The Greatest to ever do it. Listen to Superstar and Ayo and you’ll just know he was ready for this moment.

I have addressed this topic before, but I will shed more light on it again. You must learn how to disappoint and disobey your parents very early in life. My life changed for good the first time my father told me he was disappointed in me. I was so happy because he had no idea how badly I had looked forward to hearing those words from him. I didn’t do anything bad. I just started living life in a way that made sense to me, and some of my new values bothered him, especially because I’m from a veryyy religious home. Mind you, he didn’t have a problem with those things. It was basically about “what will people say?” People I don’t give a flying fvck about, by the way. I was particularly happy because I had spent my teenage years pleasing them and never wanted to do anything that would disappoint them. Here’s the thing: they’ll eventually get used to the new programme and adjust. Let me burst your bubbles. It got to a point where my parents told me they weren’t comfortable with me going to the gym and that I should stop. They asked why I couldn’t devote the time I spent at the gym to the church instead. I made it VERY clear to them that if they EVER said anything negative about me going to the gym again, they’d never hear from me again, and I was déadass. Now, when my mum calls me, she asks if I’ve been to the gym that day yet. The freedom you want from your parents comes from rebellion. You just have to make sure that, while at it, you aren’t a nuisance to society or an embarrassment to your family in the literal sense of the word. They won’t approve of your piercings, tattoos, having a boyfriend or girlfriend, living alone, keeping dreads, tinting your hair, etc., but if it makes you happy, do it anyway. I promise you, they’ll be fine, and they’ll eventually come back to compliment the very things they once criticised. They do not have a problem with you per se. What people will say is their problem. Some of you still have curfews at 27 years old. You don’t have the guts to tell your parents that you’re dating. You have your own money but can’t move out because they won’t allow you to. You even have to mute them on WhatsApp before posting pictures of yourself showing cleavage at an Owanbe. That is a sad way to live life. They just want to use you to correct their mistakes. They see you as an extension of themselves, and you have to refuse to be that. This is also why you must start finding ways to make money for yourself very early. Being dependent on your parents, especially 100% financially, gives them the leverage to take away your autonomy. You spent your teenage years impressing and pleasing your parents, and now that you’re almost 30, you’re scared to disappoint them even though you’re not going astray? Pathetic! Rebel today. They’ll be fine, walahi.

If you are from a poor family, don’t play the same game as those who come from average or rich homes. They can afford to make mistakes and fail severally because they have people to fall back on. You cannot afford that luxury because, in many ways, you are alone in this world. Utterly alone. And nobody is coming to save you. You are, in fact, closer to ending up poorer than you grew up than you are to building wealth if you are not careful enough. Firstly, you have to tell yourself the truth, and tell it often. Don’t wallow in delusion or pretend the disparities between your reality and that of rich folks do not exist. You are never going to marry a billionaire. It is not a curse; it is the truth. It is only in movies that the elite marry into poor families. In reality, it is almost nonexistent. The rich marry for different reasons, and maintaining the family’s social class is very important to them. Do your research. Nine out of every ten wealthy marriages are between people from wealthy families. You are more likely to end up with a partner at your financial level, slightly above you, or even below you. If you want to marry a rich partner, there is a level of financial work you need to put in to get yourself into spaces where you can actually meet such people. Why am I saying this? This reality is a wake-up call for you to aggressively lock in and push yourself out of the poor class, into the middle class, and gradually into the rich class as time goes by. You have a few years after university to grind relentlessly towards the middle class and, eventually, the rich class. Otherwise, you risk becoming a statistic. One of those people who tried but have absolutely nothing to show for it. No evidence. You are poor. You know it. Tell yourself that truth often as a reality check. Say NO to people without feeling the need to explain yourself. More importantly, manage your black tax. You are poor, so you think you can save everyone around you. Every month, you spend all your earnings on family and friends because you feel like you owe it to them. Then you wake up one morning, ten years after working your ass off, and realise that you still cannot afford a car, have no successful business, and have no house in sight. Meanwhile, the people you spent all those years making sure were okay never made sure you were okay. The thing is, you keep telling yourself that if you don’t provide for everyone around you, they won’t survive. News flash: If you continue like that, you’ll d!e early from stress, depression and overthinking. And guess what? They’ll be fine without you. And this is where I get to tell you that there is a certain level of selfishness needed to move from the poor class to the middle class, at least. You cannot keep sacrificing your future to make everyone else comfortable. Nobody is coming to save you, especially when you are poor.

Amore Holmes delivered a phenomenal performance last night at the #NextAfrobeatsStar show! At some point, I genuinely felt like I was watching Tiwa Savage perform ‘Somebody’s Son’. The mannerisms, the stage presence and the aura farming.😂👏🏽 I consider her my winner. #UltimaStudios

Take four😇

I feel like I already talk to who I will eventually marry.