I feel like this is very much an online vs IRL issue.
A huge reason why I held off from joining the fandom was due to seeing how folks acted in online spaces. The reality is that's a loud minority and 99% of my interactions in person have been amazing.
Does anybody else struggle with really liking furry content but not feeling like they vibe well with furries?
Like you don't feel any empathy for the things they complain about, feel like they're too thin skinned for you to be real with them, too online, among other things?