Lorena C

Relationships are hard. It's why so many people settle, stay in toxic dynamics, or end up being alone. 7 Ways To Create The Love You Desire:

“Independent girl” conditioning is really self protection. The facade becomes: I don’t need anyone, no one can hurt me. But underneath you’re a sensitive soul, who cares a lot and wants deep connections. The right people want to see your vulnerability. They’ll show you how to trust. They’ll teach you you don’t have to live life on guard, anymore.

The most important life decision we make is the partner we choose. Their habits, mindset, and their boundaries (or lack of boundaries) have the greatest impact. Here's Why:

We have a generation of men struggling to understand their anger who act out in dysfunctional ways. Let's talk about "Nice Guy" syndrome.

The cultural push of mothers into the work force and the glorification of "working moms" made the role of parenting almost trivial. Parenting and upbringing has the greatest impact on who someone becomes. Supporting parents to understand attachment theory, coping skills, and emotional intelligence is the focus in a healthy society.

The first step in healing is realizing perfectionism is an illusion. None of us are perfect. And (contrary to how we've been conditioned) mistakes are how we grow and evolve.

This is your permission to stop looking to be liked by people don’t even like themselves.

So many people say “the truth” when they actually mean: my truth.

Don’t be led by temporary emotions, be led by your values.

The only answer really is to live a life that's authentic to us and allow people to misunderstand us in the process Because they will anyway.