Has your heart ever felt so heavy and painful that it hurt to breathe so u just lay there taking loud deep ass breaths to try and regulate urself bc me rn
If you have a resume gap , say you took time to travel. You look cultured and not desperate af either for the job
The second you have to sit there and EXPLAIN to a man what you deserve , is when you already lost mama
People are mad at my last reply lol. I promise , quality women are not texting paragraphs telling men what they think they deserve and calling them losers lol. If a man approaches you with that “Netflix & chill” energy, it’s bc you look like that type of woman that accepts it.
If they are immediately love bombing you, acting overly obsessed with you, text you back within seconds, tells you they love you all within a couple weeks, then that is your true soulmate and you need to give up your life and career for them and only them.
Would yall date someone who has their ex name tatted on them , but they’re actively getting it removed? Or would you feel like they’re too far gone and possibly cooked?
Until you are locked into a genuine committed relationship, you need to put your self respect above anyone else. Because that right person will respect THAT.









