Mirage

I for don get wife and children for UK by now

Heartbreak kehh "You don cook rubbish before make the food still come plenty ??" 🤌

“I just dey regret why I no start dey trek to UK since I dey primary school, I for don reach now 😒”

Please talk very fast

“People who gossip in taxis 🚖, please try to talk faster. It's very painful going home without knowing the end of the story 🙌😂”

The lord bless your hustle

“Ashawo wey I wan advice dash me 2Ok 🥹” More gbøla to her tøtø oò 😹🤲🏽

I am still single, yet the thought of one day having a daughter already fills me with a quiet but persistent fear. Last night, while taking time to reflect on the life I hope to build, that fear returned more sharply than before. I have never shared this with anyone. As a business manager and data analyst in our family business in Edo State, and as someone who is naturally social, I move through many different environments. I meet new people almost daily, and my interest in social media has only widened the range of voices, styles, and ideas I encounter. Over time, these interactions have shaped how I observe people and the patterns that repeatedly stand out. One observation troubles me deeply: the way many women present themselves particularly through dressing and public expression often seems to reveal more than just personal style. It frequently appears shaped by external pressure, online trends, and an environment where sexuality is constantly amplified. Conversations, too, sometimes shift noticeably depending on the audience, as if certain values or boundaries are adjusted to fit the moment rather than held consistently. Today, social media and popular culture heavily promote forms of expression that blur into promiscuity, confusion around identity, and, at times, hostility toward traditional ideas of restraint or modesty. Indecent dressing is no longer treated as a personal choice with consequences; it is often celebrated. For a young girl growing up in this climate, the messages are loud and constant. I worry that the future does not currently offer the kind of safety moral, emotional, or social that a female child deserves. The influences surrounding her may be stronger than the guidance of family or personal conviction. That possibility is what keeps me uneasy.