Melly Winner

But you men are actually wicked o! You want a woman to split bills equally with you, yet she is still expected to cook, clean the house, do the laundry and wash the dishes. So, you contribute 50% financially, while she contributes 50% financially and takes on 80–100% of the domestic responsibilities. You keep lying that the UK system is designed around 50:50. Oh, please! Keep quiet. Statistics show that more than 56% of marriages in the UK still have men as the primary providers. It is you lazy, weak and entitled Nigerian men who keep championing this 50:50 nonsense. If you genuinely want 50:50, then you should also be prepared to split pregnancy 50:50. Since you cannot carry the pregnancy for your wife, you should be ready to pay her for that contribution because she carries it for nine months 100%. I genuinely pity the ignorant women who married men who see them as partners when it comes to bills but expect them to be traditional wives when it comes to domestic responsibilities. They married their enemies. Above all, love God.