Sexuality Professional. Relational Therapist (RP). Haver of complex conversations. Holder of hope. Sorting labels: critical, feminist, femme. Pronoun fluid.
Southern Ontario
Joined December 2008
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Ever get stuck in not really knowing what to do with a hottie you want to play with? Or be uncertain about how to bring your desires to life? I'm talking about this and more for CUFF. Come!
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Something that's always come pretty easy to me is not really being a jealous partner, but y'all it's 10:22 PM and my partner just made himself a post-sex ice coffee.
And he'll be asleep by 11pm
Heather retweeted
“Our job is to incentivize the p rn industry to only sell legitimate product” → at the end of the day that’s what EVERYONE wants! And sex workers know the ins & outs of HOW to do that! Like repeatedly asking for age verification, etc. #MoneyShotNetflix #FlyDuoWatchParty
Heather retweeted
As long as you know how to regulate yourself and/or regulate nervous systems with others, then do you
It’s more than reasonable & healthy for your brain to check out sometimes esp if life systemically sucks
Do you know how to get back to the present when you need to/want to?
Heather retweeted
The point of somatic/mindfulness/trauma work is NOT to be present all the time
Ew no.
The point is so you have options. So your body isn’t in a constantly dissociating or constantly being flooded in stress hormones, which has negative health effects
It's 5pm on #ValentinesDay Did you space on a gift? Here's a last-minute idea that doesn't suck.
Hire a sex educator for a guided sex toy shopping date.
From the pleasure of your living room, you & your sweeties can relax while working with a personalized shopper!
@GoddessCecilia is another fantastic and very affordable US-based option
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If you're Canadian and looking for some homegrown talent, check out @lunamatatas for consultations OR workshops (another fantastic date night idea!)
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Heather retweeted
Come down to Maggie's this Wednesday December 21st from 7-9pm for Incall - an in person drop-in for current, former or aspiring male identified sex workers in the GTA! Did we mention that we are giving away a fleshjack!?
Okay, I know late night scrolling is bad for my sleep.... But if I don't on top of my bed, said bed is TOASTY when I eventually get in it!
I was excited about this when I first heard. Got the update today. It's confusing as heck. I have to keep shelling out gems to fail tests for levels I apparently completed?!
Super hate it.
