Neb Olysar Anya

You would think this is just for content, but it is the reality. I have a friend in the UK who is a nurse. While he was still in Nigeria, he had been asking a particular lady out, but she repeatedly turned him down. It was only when she found out that his Japa plans had finally worked out that she agreed to date him. He arranged an emergency introduction and court wedding before leaving for the UK. He later returned to Nigeria for an elaborate wedding ceremony and eventually took her to the UK. The lady is a Nigerian-registered nurse. However, when she arrived in the UK, she started working in the care sector. She didn’t even work more than two days a week, and she was unwilling to support her husband financially. She never contributed to the household, not even towards the smallest expenses. Meanwhile, the man would boast about being an Odogwu who could single-handedly take care of his family. She obtained her UK nursing registration and suddenly stopped working. Recently, she called her husband and asked him to sponsor her younger brother, who is in Nigeria, for his master’s degree in the UK. Her husband jokingly asked her, “Is that why you have been saving so aggressively all this while, while refusing to contribute anything to this family?” She got angry and stopped cooking or doing anything around the house. That was the beginning of the marital crisis. She has now secured a nursing job and moved out of the matrimonial home to live independently. What people are doing in Nigeria is not love.