Pam Custers

So delighted to see the feature in The Times Magazine on the launch of the app Paired. Delighted that I am part of the team of relationship experts. Well done Paired.

Familes that are successful after divorce are those who are able to transition from one home to two in a mutually respectful way - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #innerpeace #bethechange #manifest #intentionalliving

There are many couples who have one partner saying "but I shouldn't have to ask him, surely he should know what I want!" Well, this is where it all goes wrong. None of us are mind readers and this crystal ball thinking leads us straight to feelings of resentment - Pam Custers

Couples counselling - The very nub of the work we do is to co-create an understanding of not only how we meet each other's needs, but also that we find what is in the best interests for the relationship. #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #couples #counselling #connection

All of us may have two or three significant relationships in our lives - and often with the same person!! Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect

If we start to feel our partner is either not "hearing" or if we just can't understand what our partner needs, things can start to fall apart - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth

One of the most powerful things to do is to reach out for support. Doing nothing simply means nothing will change. - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect

Communication is the cornerstone of every relationship. Surprisingly whilst we live in a society that bombards us with multiple ways of communicating, we are not always good at finding a way to be heard and have our needs met - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters

The extraordinary thing is that it often takes some small steps to turn a relationship into a truly connected one. #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect #bethechange

If we find a way of nurturing the relationship, we nurture ourselves. #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #counselling #personalgrowth #realtionships #psychotherapy #couples #family #personaldevelopment #support #mentalhealth #manifest #bethechange #innerpeace #energy

Perhaps we believe that we have made our needs clear to our partners. Perhaps our partners are flaying around in the dark, ever hopeful that they are fulfilling the needs that they think they understand you have - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters

"People come with all sorts of problems but common to most of them is they're not listening to one another or they can't express what it is they want" - Pam Custers #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment

The best view comes after the hardest climb.... #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect #bethechange #manifest #intentionalliving #support #relationships #mentalhealth

The role of professional therapists is more important than ever - Natalie Bailey, Chair BACP #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #innerpeace#manifest #support #relationships #mentalhealth

Maybe it won't work out by maybe seeing if it does will be the best adventure ever! #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect #bethechange #manifest #intentionalliving #relationships

Pink recently made a point of being honest about her marriage. "Carey and I have been in couple's counselling almost our entire 17 years we've been together. It's the only reason we're still together today." #therelationshippractice #pamcusters

Tomorrow - you don't need to look any further! #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect #bethechange #intentionalliving #support #relationships #mentalhealth

Make time and space to talk by doing counselling online either as an individual or couple from the comfort of your home. We are here for you. #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace

As some countries gradually emerge from the confines of lockdown, how are you and yours coping during this new phase? #therelationshippractice #pamcusters #psychotherapy #couples #family #counselling #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #energy #innerpeace #selfrespect