Joshua Perlman

As friends and family, we are called to enter not only into the joys of life but also into its sorrows. As Romans 12:15 instructs us, “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep” (ESV). Do you notice that we are called to meet people in the emotion they are experiencing? Paul doesn’t say, “Make those who weep rejoice instead,” or “Make sure those who weep feel better.” Weep with those who weep. Share their sorrow. Share their burden. Share their grief. Don’t try to fix it. Most of the time, you can’t. We all want to be there for the happy times, but the tragedies require our presence just as much. Sit with your friends, family, or spouse who are mourning. Allow them to process whatever they need to think or say. Give them that sacred space to come as they are and let it all out. You might not feel like you’re doing anything, but trust me . . . for them, it’s everything. Read @cathelaurie's midweek devotional at hubs.la/Q04xJHf40