John/Phantom

Hey, if I could have a few minutes of your time. I thought about whether or not I should make a statement but ultimately I think it is best so here we go. First and foremost, I AM TAKEN!! Therefore, you should not be leaving messages on my Tellonym talking about "I like you, I hope you like me back" or "I can treat you better js." It's rude, disrespectful, and quite frankly if you are feeling it's okay to say any of these things all while knowing a person is in a relationship there is absolutely no way in hell I'd date someone with that kind of personality to begin with. Next, all the messages trying to give advice and say how I should or shouldn't treat my gf is not anyone's business. All this talk about "I could treat her better" and such is stupid because no relationship is perfect, every single one has some sort of flaw or issue here and there. Yes, you may be right, you may see some aspect where you feel you can do a better job but I can also assure you there would be aspects where you fall short because we are all human and imperfect. Not only that but she herself has said that this is the healthiest relationship she's been in and is very happy and deeply in love as am I. If we have issues we communicate discuss them like adults and work through anything that comes up so mind your own business and leave us be. I won't tolerate anyone disrespecting our relationship, whether you are a friend or anything else. With that said, and it should go without saying but I'll say it anyways, do not flirt with me and please respect the boundaries of my relationship. The only person I need giving me frequent and excessive praise or compliments is my gf, the only female best friend or bestie I need is my gf, the only one I need saying "I love you" or "love ya" or anything else is my gf. And lastly, anyone doing an anonymous confession, it quite literally means nothing to me that you are confessing to be anonymous. If you can't even confess upfront then your confession holds zero weight and I don't even want to hear it. Plus, once again, I am in a relationship. You shouldn't be confessing anyways. If you felt that way so badly you should have taken a chance when there was one, NOT after I got in a relationship. Alright that's all I think. On a lighter note, I wanted to say thank you to everyone that was kind and sweet enough to send such kind messages after I had received all the awful ones. It meant a lot to know how many people support me and my relationship with @mysticrosalievt. 💜 I never expected that so many people would be so kind and supportive towards me so it's a weird feeling but it makes me very happy to know. So thank you all once again. Below are some of the kind messages I've received and if you've read this far, uh good job! Buy yourself some boba tea 🧋🪽 Now, back to being the chill boba-loving angel you know 💜