Showing you what peaking in your 30s as a Bachelor looks like. Writing on Substack ↓

Miami, FL
Joined August 2023
After gaining over 700 new followers the past day, I wanted to introduce myself to all of you and reintroduce myself to current followers. Post 30 here in Miami and I talk about Bachelor life after 30 as well as various cultural, political, and social trends that impact single men. When I was in my early 20s, I used to wonder, what alternative is there to life if you don't get married and have kids in your 30s? Is it a lonely miserable existence? Well, now I am living that life and I have to say it's amazing. To get in-depth stories and my thoughts on various topics, you can also subscribe to my Substack! Link in comments below.
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If there is one trait I have noticed with guys that struggle a lot with women, it's how they take themselves way too seriously and have a sensitive ego. You make a joke? They easily get offended. These guys cannot deal with the mind games a woman plays or the rejection that comes with dating. It's why finance, tech, and the White Collar world are flooded with men who have money and looks but still underperform with women. Prime example are guys you see on Incel spaces on the internet who will argue with you day and night and defend their failing way of life. They rather protect their ego than get better.
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The elephant in the room we don't want to admit is that the vast majority of the guys in the Manosphere were actually terrible with women. Number one reason is that these guys took themselves too seriously and had a sensitivity problem, a huge problem. No way you can deal with a woman's mind games or the rejections that come with cold approach if you are this way. However, these guys were great at marketing themselves as an authority on the matter because of how much they spoke about it and the audience they got online. That became a classic case of the blind leading the blind.
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A theory that doesn't get discussed enough about why Indians were so hated by the Manosphere, which eventually led to Indian Hate going mainstream, is the unattainability of good looking Indian women. The Manosphere when it first started used to pride itself on "collecting flags" by sleeping with women of various nationalities as some sport. With Indian women, the vast majority look awful. However, you get the few who look like Sunny Leone or some Bollywood actress, downright gorgeous. These women are even hard to attain for the average Indian guy, forget going interracial. I could only imagine the frustration a sex-crazed man who craves conquest would get here. Sure, some Chad or Tyrone will no doubt have a lot of success but the vast majority of guys of other Races will not. What better thing to do than rant online about Indians as a result.
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One of the main reasons Right Wing politics got so extreme is because at some point in the 2010s, it merged with the Manosphere which was already going political. Imagine sexually frustrated men playing victim who want politics to save the day. Some voices even crossed over into politics itself. When sexual frustration and lack of achievement with women wounds a man's ego, he carries that hurt for life and takes it out on anyone and everyone. Immigration became a huge problem around the Migrant Crisis in 2015, that is when the Manosphere had completely merged with movements like MAGA.
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One realization I have had over the years is that Western women aren't nearly as bad as the internet and Manosphere taught you that they were, they just had more leverage for years. Your typical woman from the Eastern world will embody those traits far more once she gets the same leverage. Don't believe me? Go interact with a Ukrainian chick in any major Western city, there's your answer.
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The Manosphere deserves a lot more blame for things being so bad for modern men right now. Most dating problems can be traced back to scammy dating coaches and Manosphere voices influencing men and making then bitter. "PUAHate" was the first ever major Incel site and it was loveless dudes talking about how programs like RSD ripped them off and they never got better. At the same time, the Manosphere was pushing anti-Western woman rhetoric and selling guys on the idea of going abroad for easy sex. They poisoned the minds of young men who were just finishing school or had repressive upbringings so no way to tell right from wrong. But the Manosphere had the marketing and the reach so this was the first influence men got with male self-help. A decade later, we have seen the outcome of that. The average guy is angry, bitter at women, and cynical.
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The uncomfortable truth is that if we all really had it our way, we'd want to be in our Mid-20s for the rest of our lives. - Some money - Life in a big city - Unattached/no responsibilities - Physical prime - Enough life experience but not enough to make you jaded - Friends are single and ready to hang out People only move on from this life because they have to, not because they want to.
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Anyone who has been to or stayed in Macon before knows the place is a sh*thole. Even knew people that went to Mercer and had to worry about being attacked and mugged by townies. People act like there is a Georgia outside of Atlanta. Nah bro, once you get outside of Atlanta, the state is either a giant ghetto, giant trailer park, or the occasional charm of Savannah. I feel for anyone who has to actually move there for work. Going to be a lot of miserable transplants but then again, Georgia draws them in droves.
🚨 WOW! The CEO of AUDI just came on stage with President Trump to confirm a multi-BILLION dollar auto manufacturing investment in Georgia "We are planning to bring are biggest and most premium SUVs, and produce them here in MACON, GEORGIA." CROWD: "TRUMP! TRUMP! TRUMP!" This is monumental! 🇺🇸 That thing the Democrats and "experts" said was impossible, HAPPENED AGAIN Trump says construction begins next month. TARIFFS WORK
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One of the funniest yet saddest things I witnessed at Moxies was sitting outdoors with a couple of friends in town for the weekend. About three middle-aged White dudes sit next to us, all of them chubby and greying. Some SEC football Game was playing. A hot blonde walks by and these guys are looking back and saying all of the things they would do to her. They were drunk so clearly saying some inappropriate things (there's your "Christian Values"). Then some ripped young Latino dude chases after this blonde and approaches her. The guys look on as one of the men rolls his eyes and says "can't be doing that". They get more focused on that interaction than the game. Latino bro pulls an instant date. You saw the life leave these middle-aged guys who were no longer as loud, they just seemed depressed over it.
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It's crazy how what we value in society as men has shifted to age, youth, and life experiences while young as opposed to the job title. Like your average guy rather be some 24 year old dude living in Miami, getting jacked, approaching hot girls all day, and occasionally going out as opposed to some 50 year old bald VP making half a million a year.
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It's nothing personal but I will never get the hype behind Flanigan's in Miami. The food is disgusting and it literally brings locals who just want to watch sports ball all day. Is the appeal behind it being an Irish bar in a mostly Latino city?
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The uglier the couple, the more publicly intimate they get. IYKYK.
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Virginia has the most aura and respect out of any state in the South, it may be the only Southern state that is beloved by the entire country. Even the Northerners who look down on the South respect Virginia. It has a certain classiness to it that you do not find in any other state in the South. The culture is classy, respectful, values education, and locals somewhat humble. It's a far cry from a state like Georgia where the culture is smug, locals loud, judgmental, and desperate for recognition.
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For all the crap I say about the south, thing is there are a lot of Southern dudes who are cool AF. @DukeHerndon is one such example, follow him!
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If you all want to see how sad, cringe, and pathetic sports fans in America are, follow this guy's Youtube channel. It's comedy gold.
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Of all the sports, American Football is the worst one to follow. One Game goes on for hours and most of it is commercial breaks. Now imagine a fanatic who does "Fantasy Football" and watches multiple Games from day to night on a weekend. How does somebody do this to themselves?
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I truly think that one sign of ascending in life is that you no longer care that much about sports. Like sure, you'll watch every now and then but it doesn't get that emotional reaction out of you like it used to. Meanwhile, you feel bad for the countless guys who are: - Chugging beer and watching football for hours on weekends - Shouting at the TV for how the game is going - Getting into heated arguments and even fights over a freaking Game
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I was thinking of telling guys who spend their weekends sitting down watching sports ball for hours as they eat junk food and chug beer to go out and talk to women instead. However, I forgot that they are: - Living in the suburbs - Married to some chick that gets fatter every year - Probably have kids now Commercial break is over, back to watching a few seconds of action on the gridiron Bubba!
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