Women are really empathetic.
Corrected.
My neighbour was screaming for help from her apartment this night, and most of us rushed out in panic, thinking something terrible had happened. We got into her apartment, only to discover that she was on a video call with her friend who had just spotted a snake inside HER OWN apartment that's a few street away.
My neighbour was seriously re-echoing her friend's screams over the phone as if it was happening within.
Women can be dramatic!!π
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He said dress your miracle and people are dressing what they want as a miracle. Some people's miracle is a life partner, some others is children, some finance, some relocation. So because majority of people actually want to be married and bear children they socially conditioned
Now that the Hallelujah Challenge has passed, I have a few observations based on what I see on social media, which are not entirely incorrect.
I attended two or three years ago. It was strictly praise-centered and usually an hour. Pastor Nath would even apologize when they ran a little over.
Now it is about getting married, having children, and relocation. Nothing more. βDress like your miracle.β
Gullible women wear wedding gowns and buy rings. Married women pad their stomachs to fake pregnancy.
Canβt you see you are being conditioned? They tell you that without a man, marriage, or child you are nothing.
You have solid careers yet feel a void and never enough because you are single.
Wake up!
You are more than enough, single or married.
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A woman laboured for more than 24hrs and was scheduled for an emergency CS.
Thank God she couldn't contact her pastor because he was saying they spent money not needed to deliver.
That the doctors just wanted them to spend money and that's why she had CS.
A lot of religious people need to be enlightened and stop seeing cesarean section as something evil.
God is the one behind the wisdom that is being used in medicine.
Every technology being used in medicine is aimed at making life easier and more comfortable for human beings.
I wonder how you can be booked for a cesarean section and still fail to show up at the hospital. Rather than doing that, you stayed in church praying.
Praying for what?
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Download Flo app.
The premium app is free for Nigerians. You deserve to know about your bodies.
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Lately, I have been loving to cook.
Na so e dey do una? Like you'd just want to sweep, clean and cook. These are chores I don't necessarily enjoy doing.
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It's sad really.
To imagine we argued dirty on the timeliness and it literally kills someone from overseas in Nigeria a few weeks later.
But how didn't they detect the child being dead in the womb earlier?
Really sad. ππ
Just last week/this week , I faced backlash and called names for highlighting that a categorical βyesβ or βnoβ to βpregnancy is a death sentenceβ overlooks individual experiences.
Pregnancy can FEEL like a death sentence for some, and unfortunately in this case it became a death sentence , while others may have a relatively straightforward experience. People should be able to share their experiences without being dismissed.
I find myself wondering whether having her baby in the UK might have changed the outcome (not saying there are no maternal deaths but chances of survival might have been higher ). Itβs heartbreaking to think about what might have been. May her family find strength and comfort. ππΎ
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I'm sure her husband is not "pregnancy is not a death sentence" or "na you just wan die from pregnancy" clique.
Marry a gre man so you'd humble pregnancy.
Go to her page and see how her husband treats her.
He loves her, cooks for her and takes care of her.
You donβt see her waking up at 4am to cook so her husband wonβt be snatched at work.
So why wonβt she humble pregnancy.
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I broke up with one guy for something similar not just this but one of the reasons.
We both embarked on a 3 days dry fasting. Went to the market bought what we will cook. Instead of him to help me so we can finish cooking, eat and rest. Baba slept until I was done.
It ended.
A lady broke up her engagement because she and her fiancΓ©e went for counseling and came back home late and she went straight to the kitchen to cook, when she was done cooking, she brought his food for him and was herding to the fridge to get water and he said water has finished that he was waiting for her to finish and come and buy it from outside.
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