It’s never easy, but let’s drop the victim mentality. Sitting back and doing nothing is a choice. Communicate, showing them that you’re discerning and responsible, and push back if none of that works. Eventually, they have no choice but to respect your autonomy.
it’s not so easy to break free from the hold of abusive parents, especially in such a terrible country. they torment their kids from childhood and don’t stop even when they’re adults.
there’s a lot of psychological damage that results from a lifetime of abuse and it takes a lot of mental strength to not become completely submissive.
the kids mostly end up so deeply afraid that they can’t even save themselves. afraid of their parents, afraid to face the world on their own. it’s a lot really.
I’ve debated this with lots of adults, and it’s clear they’re just comfortable with their chains. It’s like reasoning with someone deep in religious indoctrination. All that control doesn't even build moral integrity; it just creates hypocrites waiting for a window to go crazy.
So most of y’all grew up in homes where the most strenuous, heavy, or dangerous tasks were assigned to the males, except in their absence. Then you grew up to join the hive mind on social media, treating those traditional dynamics as inherently oppressive rather than functional.
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These writers must think we’re foolish🤦🏾♂️
In S4E22, tell me why Tim has a doppelgänger (Dim), his girlfriend (Juicy) also happens to be Lucy’s doppelgänger, and now Tim & Lucy have to "practice" kissing to play them undercover?? This isn’t even a sci-fi series, it’s fucking LAPD!
I had an amazing day. I put in effort into making sure every year feels like this, and I’m so lucky to have family and friends who ignite it. I’m truly grateful.
First it was Deep now Margaret, @phynofino is a proper lover boy❤️
Someone once told me maybe I’m the problem bc of my track record of ending relationships. I just laughed, because you're better off with me who will walk away the second i feel disrespected. Niggas out here will wait decades to get their lick back.
Obsession with squirters is one thing, I don’t understand why he loves possessed babes always singing about an ogbanje, mami water, water spirit. On top of that he believes he’s some celestial being. I love how abnormal he is 😭😆
"Pregnancy is a risky venture, but not a death sentence" ➡️ “You’re minimizing the risk!”
"Investigate before punishing" ➡️ “You’re an apologist!”
"Exercise caution with strangers" ➡️ “Stop victim blaming!”
You dare not present facts to people who want to be victims so bad.
Men and women are so different mehn.
You'd be speaking words, and instead of women to be understanding it, or trying to get your pov, they're instead "feeling" the words.
So,the statement
"Pregnancy is a risky venture, but not a death sentence" invokes feeling of, 'they are minimizing the risk associated with pregnancy' to the women that hear it.
Men are arguing the logical and literal accuracy of the statement, while women are arguing against the statement cause it makes them feel unappreciated for the huge risk they went through.
So, it's basically two different arguments
God is probably laughing at how funny the interaction between both genders is.
You’ll only truly understand the mob hate if you’ve ever been targeted by a hive mind bc you represent a standard they know they could never be. Suddenly all your actions or inaction get twisted out of bitterness. When you're loved by a lot, people have only one way to stand out.
