Feminists will complain about this, but it's just a case of them having shitty media literacy. The whole point of the plot, great example being Kung Fu Panda, is showcasing that the random guy DOES suck compared to the woman, she's much better than him for nearly the entire time. However, it's only with the crystalization of his arc and his development of character that allows him to overcome the obstacle that defeated the woman. Po is a worse warrior than Tigress, they mention that she kicks his ass in every single sparring match they have, but Po defeats Tai Lung because of his mindset towards kung fu. "There is no special ingredient", and he triumphs by utilizing his own special attributes against Tai Lung, his panda traits are turned into weapons instead of things holding him back like they were for the entire movie. These movies are saying something about competence, that hard work will make you powerful, but you often cannot succeed in the end if you don't have the right mindset and character.