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One of the most underrated coaching habits is simply following up on something an athlete told you last week.
Not because there's a problem. But because you said you would.
A simple but powerful way to show a player they matter.
Coaches often ask athletes what went wrong after a bad performance.
But rarely ask what went right after a good one.
If you want athletes to repeat success, help them understand what created it.
Don't let small misunderstandings linger.
Clarify. Ask questions. Make sure everyone is on the same page.
A two-minute conversation today can prevent a two-week problem later.
What are the 1-2 things you want your players to focus on in today's practice?
You don't get more than that unless your athletes are elite.
If you chase five rabbits, you catch none.
Good behaviors become habits when coaches catch athletes doing something right.
Habits aren't created by being told what you're doing wrong.
Lead yourself first.
Seth Kindig retweeted
Most coaches accidentally add complexity because they feel in control.
Elite coaches obsess over simplicity.
Evaluating performances.
Identifying mistakes.
Making adjustments.
Solving problems.
All things we should be teaching our athletes to solve for themselves.
The goal isn't to become less helpful.
It's to make the athlete more capable.
Lead yourself first.
A simple question every coach should ask.
"What am I doing for my athletes that they should eventually be able to do for themselves?"
Great coaches don't assume that because a problem has disappeared, it's been solved.
Sometimes the athlete improved.
Sometimes the situation changed.
Sometimes the problem just hasn't shown up again.
Knowing the difference matters.
Athletes don't become more independent by being given more answers.
They become more independent by getting better at finding answers.
Every coaching conversation is an opportunity to practice that.
Coaches often spend more time correcting poor effort than recognizing good effort.
Then wonder why athletes associate coaching with criticism.
What you consistently notice matters.
One of the easiest ways to improve a practice is to tell athletes what they're supposed to get better at before it starts.
Then ask them what they got better at when it ends.
Two simple conversations.
A lot more intentionality.
Great coaches make it easy for athletes to know where they stand.
Not because every athlete gets the role they want.
But because athletes shouldn't have to guess what the coach thinks of them.
Clarity is a form of respect.
Coaches want athletes who take initiative.
But initiative means athletes will occasionally do things differently than you would.
If you correct every different decision, don't be surprised when they stop making decisions.
Great coaches don't just ask whether athletes are working hard.
They ask whether the work is producing the intended improvement.
Those are different questions.
And both matter.
One of the most underrated coaching skills is knowing when to stop talking.
You've explained it.
The athlete understands.
Now they need a chance to try it.
More instruction isn't always more coaching.
Sometimes the best way to make mistakes less threatening to your players is to let a few happen without commentary.


