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Replying to @just_Enhle07
Every woman gets there eventually, some just take the scenic route. Money pays for dinner. How safe he makes her feel at the table is what she remembers.
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Replying to @zoeygyal
Both true, and both sting more than anyone admits. Interest is what starts it. Choosing each other on the boring days is what keeps anyone from walking.
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Replying to @Oluwa_Flavor1
Asking it out loud does sound like a job interview, darling. The man who's ready already noticed what she brings, and he makes sure she knows he noticed.
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Bonus: try "I'd like to see you Thursday" instead. That shows clear interest with room for her to say no, which is the opposite of pressure.
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Replying to @ScarlettTells
The not knowing is a thrill, I won't pretend it isn't. But a man who's clear he wants you and still keeps a little mystery? That feeling never leaves.
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"No pressure" sounds generous. It isn't. It hands her the whole decision and calls it kindness.
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Replying to @PowerOfManhood
Half true. A green flag on his own is a compliment you give a coworker. A green flag who still makes her a little nervous? That's the one she can't stop thinking about.
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That’s exactly why you can’t leave that toxic relationship: because you believe she’s “the one.” Always hold high standards for your woman.
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8. I'm not like other girls. If she says this, she's exactly like the rest, bro. 99% of women are the same. Learn to command respect in front of one and you'll know how to do it with all of them. She's not special. You're just feeling lonely.
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She really loves you and respects you. Girls would move mountains for the guy they like. No woman in the world would ever say "I don't like you" straight to your face. You have to understand that she is not interested in you.
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If you're single, I hope one day you find a girl who is genuinely interested in you so you can understand what a woman would actually do for a man.
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7. I'm not ready for a relationship She's not ready for a relationship WITH YOU! This means she's not ready for a relationship just WITH YOU.
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Their past is the best indicator of their future. Discover patterns through their actions. They will show you exactly who they are within the first 2 to 4 months of the relationship. Accept it, and if it doesn’t meet your standards, move on.
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6. My past doesn’t matter Unfortunately, it does matter, bro. Your past matters as much as your future. Your girl might be the most obedient and feminine woman in the world, but if you look at her body count and see she’s been with more than 50 dicks, that’s a massive red flag
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Your friend is waiting for the slightest opportunity, a little escape hatch to get into your girl. You know it, we all know it. If this is the lie she's telling you, get out! Never tolerate that nonsense from her.
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Become a man to whom it wouldn't even occur to have a backup. Learn to command respect. Set boundaries. Don't tolerate nonsense.
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5. It's just a friend We all know that they're never just friends. It's simply not possible. Women want their male friends to be the backup for the man they're with.
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I respect everyone, but nowadays, just being aesthetically pleasing isn’t going to help you.
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Here's a secret for you: Become powerful. The sexiest thing for women and the easiest to attain is wealth. With all due respect to bodybuilders and to the men who train religiously every day,
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