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8 months on from the Integral Man pilot, Mark Nightingale compare notes to give you a feel for the weekend, ahead of the next one (18–20 September 2026, in ancient woodland near Lewes, East Sussex) youtu.be/3r0TsfiKU_M?is=ua9u…
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Happy Fathers day. If it's not happy for you, may you find the strength and courage to prevail in your fathering, whatever the obstacle
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Sue points to a yawning & evil void in our culture - the actual quality of our care of children in practice - which is mirrored by the yawning gap in the intersectional theory that, at the moment at least, dominates our public institutions with terrible consequences for all
Why do intersectionalists ignore children? Read more here in my latest substack 👇 open.substack.com/pub/fair37… #intersectionality #children #adultification @HeadWarriorTWM
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Great news, and great work @BothParentsMtr - a lifesaving free service for alienated dads after family separation
1/ Good news for men going through family court processes. Getting support from @BothParentsMtr (formerly FNF) significantly increased: - Confidence about child contact issues - Knowledge of court procedures - Ability to cope emotionally [Link in first comment 👇]
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1/ Good news for men going through family court processes. Getting support from @BothParentsMtr (formerly FNF) significantly increased: - Confidence about child contact issues - Knowledge of court procedures - Ability to cope emotionally [Link in first comment 👇]
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When your wife says she “doesn’t feel safe,” it might sound like an accusation. What does that even mean, & how is it your fault when you’ve worked hard to provide? In this @laurahow team pod we unpack what safety actually means for women & for men youtu.be/bLpuPwQf6z0?is=7IXv…
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Next Integral Man: 18-20 Sep A man’s life rises or falls on the questions he’s willing to face. The questions he avoids find him later. The load he refuses gets carried by his children. The brotherhood he never builds is the one he most needs. integralman.org/
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The work is grounded in Christian principles – repentance, forgiveness, redemption, responsibility – but it isn’t a conversion programme. Men of any background, any belief, or none are welcome. What’s required is a willingness to stop avoiding the heavy questions.
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My brother read some lines from Cat Stevens' Hard Headed Woman at my wedding last week in his best man speech. So on point. And a great tune.... youtu.be/Z8T8pLAxCXg?si=TMUz…
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I'm looking for a hard headed woman One who'll take me for myself And if I find my hard headed woman I won't need nobody else I'm looking for a hard headed woman One who'll make me do my best And if I find my hard headed woman I know the rest of my life will be blessed
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Returning from pilot of Integral Man in E Sussex - a men's retreat in nature looking at: - direct ancestors / where they lived - the gold in English culture - anger - forgiveness - Christian values - what being a good man means - facing Grendel (the monster in Beowulf) 🧵
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- taking personal responsibility for our lives & our culture - facing fear with courage & fellowship We are looking for men for our next weekend in Sep. Ideally you are starting consider your relationship to faith. All backgrounds welcome. More here youtu.be/EQw5FkJcc94?si=PtSN…
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Just 35% of women under 25 have a favourable view of men Only 11% have a 'v positive view' of men Young women are being poisoned & the @NewStatesman women discussing these findings realise they have been the chemists... Thanks @Sargon_of_Akkad youtube.com/live/103u6EunqBo…
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On point
Jimmy's plan to tackle the Manosphere. Get tour tickets: brnw.ch/21x0Z7k
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