Seeing a woman in her 30's desparately looking for an overnight marriage success actually hits harder until you start feeling pity for her because you know very well the chances of her getting a husband is the same as a politician fulfilling their promises. The part that even hits harder is always that part where she is going to be passed around with Men but they won't marry her. Try marriage in your 20's,if it doesn't work,leave it alone because you won't find it in your 30's.