🌸 ♡ Rafikiii ♡ 🌺

So the motivation for reconciling with an absent father is that one day someone's parents might ask who your father is and what he does? 😂 Imagine making a deeply personal decision about healing and family relationships based on how presentable your family background will look at a potential in-laws' interview. A parent's absence is not a child's shame to fix. And if a family considers you less worthy because your father was a deadbeat, perhaps you've just discovered another red flag. Run!