It's been so long since I took the piss out of Aylin, I'm praying I succeed today #thepressure
think before we speak, calm down, and give some love and attention to OUR minorities? Can we please talk nicely with and of each other?
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lgbtqa community for once? There are so many people not heard because of what people want, which is the norm in the lgbtqa community. Can +
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are ace? Or aro? Asensual? Non-aesthetic? Where are explicit demisexuals? Where are trans people in series? Can we look deeper into the +
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know that the A in lgbtqa stands for ace, NOT ally? Why are ace people pressured into things? Why do they always get questions of WHY they +
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fictional story includes it. Also, realise that gays and bi people have been represented lately. Where are the ace people? How many people +
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lgbtqa+ in their lives. Sometimes real life representation is not there. Not everyone's life story includes lgbtqa+ people. Not every +
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And if we talk about representation: bad people are lgbtqa+. Good people are lgbtqa+. Sometimes people go through lives where there is no +
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they are ready, when they want to, when they feel comfortable. Too many people are forced to come out or are outed, and that should stop.
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The thing is, you don't get to decide who someone does and does not love, and in what ways and for what reasons. People come out when +
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pretending I am straight, even though I explicitly came out about how I identify and who I can love.
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Furthermore, a ship is a ship and is very much allowed. But forcing your will of someone to be gay is just as rude and hurtful as my nan +
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It's NOT okay to assume anyone's sexuality until they feel comfortable to tell you. If someone isn't out, it's not up to you to out them.
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Please stop yelling 'queer-baiting'. Assuming someone is gay until they TELL you, basing it on actions/looks/voice, is really harmful.
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