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Benaddicted, Freemanned, Sherlocked, Hyuna, u's, Aqours. Anime, K-pop, parties, writing, all that. ▪ISTJ•20•bi-aesthetic+demisexual with a fear of commitment▪

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Joined October 2014
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It's been so long since I took the piss out of Aylin, I'm praying I succeed today #thepressure
If you disagree or want to discuss, come chat. Different opinions exist.
think before we speak, calm down, and give some love and attention to OUR minorities? Can we please talk nicely with and of each other?
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lgbtqa community for once? There are so many people not heard because of what people want, which is the norm in the lgbtqa community. Can +
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are ace? Or aro? Asensual? Non-aesthetic? Where are explicit demisexuals? Where are trans people in series? Can we look deeper into the +
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know that the A in lgbtqa stands for ace, NOT ally? Why are ace people pressured into things? Why do they always get questions of WHY they +
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fictional story includes it. Also, realise that gays and bi people have been represented lately. Where are the ace people? How many people +
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lgbtqa+ in their lives. Sometimes real life representation is not there. Not everyone's life story includes lgbtqa+ people. Not every +
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And if we talk about representation: bad people are lgbtqa+. Good people are lgbtqa+. Sometimes people go through lives where there is no +
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they are ready, when they want to, when they feel comfortable. Too many people are forced to come out or are outed, and that should stop.
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The thing is, you don't get to decide who someone does and does not love, and in what ways and for what reasons. People come out when +
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pretending I am straight, even though I explicitly came out about how I identify and who I can love.
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Furthermore, a ship is a ship and is very much allowed. But forcing your will of someone to be gay is just as rude and hurtful as my nan +
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It's NOT okay to assume anyone's sexuality until they feel comfortable to tell you. If someone isn't out, it's not up to you to out them.
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Please stop yelling 'queer-baiting'. Assuming someone is gay until they TELL you, basing it on actions/looks/voice, is really harmful.
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