Ariellah | אריאלה

"Gay hookup culture has convinced an entire generation that human anatomy is a crime. 💔 Talked to a guy last weekend who casually told me he skips dinner and lunches on Saturdays if he plans on going out that night. He wasn't joking. He drinks water, takes four fiber capsules, and spends forty five minutes in the bathroom running gallons of tap water through his digestive tract just in case he meets someone. When did basic intimacy require the sterile conditions of an orthopedic operating THEATER? We are dealing with human bodies. It is a biological digestive system, not a polished chrome hallway. Yet somewhere along the way, p0n and internet paranoia convinced guys that if there is even a microscopic hint of reality, the world ends. Now you have guys in their early twenties giving themselves chronic intestinal inflammation because they douche three times a week with freezing municipal water. its completely unhinged. If you cannot handle the basic biological reality of what that area of the body does, you are not mature enough to be having sex with other men in the first place. A quick shower with soap should of been the standard. Instead, people are treating casual hookups like high-stakes surgical procedures and destroying their health over it. Why are we doing this to ourselves?"

an example of what i was referring to about trans people in the west believing that when you transition you eventually somehow become cis