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Dragon blind boxes youtu.be/RArUQ8VBz_c?is=fZin⦠via @YouTube for anyone interested lol
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Misogyny is such a fascinating exercise in illogical reasoning.
A male pilot jumps to his death, and a female student pilot successfully lands a plane in an emergency. Nobody questions whether men should be allowed to fly.
But let a woman who wasnβt even piloting scream in an emergency, and suddenly sheβs evidence that women shouldnβt be pilots.
A manβs failure is an individual tragedy. A womanβs fear becomes an indictment of her entire gender.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
But another thing this discourse has demonstrated is how routine it is for women to be scapegoats. If a failure occurs, blame with bypass the men in positions of seniority & responsibility to credit a woman. If success, a woman labor will be credited to a man.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Rape culture. Same reason they raged when Emilia Clarke renegotiated her GOT contract about nudity. Same reason they raged when Headey didn't get naked for the shame walk. They want women/girls to be uncomfortable & resistant yet coerced to do it. Or they'll violate another way.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
This is why rape apologists makes me so angry. It's sadistic. Victims experience so much trauma, particularly when their bodies feel like they betrayed them & weren't theirs to control because of involuntary responses like this. It's tormenting victims to cause further trauma.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Men sued sites that allowed women to share their stories of abusive men. They attacked FB groups for women warning women about men. They cried about that tea app. Suddenly databases about women (& their private healthcare) are good? Do men's accusations, impregnations, & STIs.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
"I'm not even going to touch ur weird pedo comp."
Yeah, men never advertise their predation of kids. Men don't notoriously bond over sexualizing teens, have countdown clocks for celebrity kids, or defend predators of children. It's all super secret out of fear men would judge.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Convinced men's feigned ignorance is to exhaust women who speak out on it. I've never seen so many people continuously double down once you point out that the woman is not the only one making choices in the relationship
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
And the thing is, by deflecting from abusive men to blame women for being victimzed by them, it shows what those men do when their buddies are abusing women. If men will side with abusive men they don't even know to blame their victims, I know they choose abusers as friends.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
I guess one upside is I learned about an impressive 20yo woman who got her pilot's license at 17, complete credit with her actual name & picture. Guess all a woman needs to do to get credit for her achievements is for a man's identity to need to be obscured. π
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Parents who take your kids to cons: I am begging you to PLEASE teach them not to touch cosplayersβ costumes or props without permission!!! Itβs wild the number of times a kid has come up to us and either touched or straight up grabbed our props without permission, and their parents either havenβt said anything or actually encouraged them to do it! Our costumes and props can be fragile or delicate and these are things we have worked very hard on, but you should also just teach your kids to have respect for other people and their property and to always ask before touching?!?
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
I'm invoking her because she did do that and she's the most popular example because of how publicsized it was. I use her as an example because its the easiest one to use to showcase why people need to be smarter and understand fanfic's place in legal sense
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
I may be being somewhat picky but I suggest a manβs rape tally should be zero. For his entire lifetime.
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darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Men who complain about "dead bodies," starfishing, & women they knew didn't want or enjoy sex with them yet did it anyway will always be admitted rapists. They've just chosen to DARVO & define rape to exclude themselves, as all predators do.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Men: women's standards are unrealistic & too high. Men are simple & reasonable about beauty.
Also men: this famous beauty is so ugly. The guy is really hot though.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
She's disgusting & I hope bad things happen to her & that little girl never has to think of her again but notice the woman got more time than the actual rapist man? Which is standard.
Also worth noting forced birthers want this, men who advocate pursuing "fertile" girls do too.
Mother Sentenced to 7 Consecutive Life Terms After Her 11-Year-Old Daughter Gives Birth at Home to Stepfatherβs Baby people.com/mom-gets-7-life-sβ¦
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Your reminder as a certain trial closes that rape is rarely ever about availability of sex. "He could have had anyone he wanted". It is about power, control, abuse, violence, and fucking entitlement.
darah wood ππππ³οΈββ§οΈ retweeted
Obviously men devoted to performing masculinity & conforming to gender roles are an unmistakable threat but men have learned if their clothing, mannerisms, rhetoric project a rejection of conformity to patriarchy & submission to other men, they can disarm prey. And groom allies.