co host of #LossLit aka @LossLitWeds - a weekly writing group focussing on the topic of Loss (or Joy) - everyone welcome.

Crawley, West Sussex
Joined January 2009
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Hello and welcome to #LossLit Wednesday! We are here for the next two hours, so please come join us as we explore the meaning of #Loss - as in how it affects us, how we deal with and what it means to us. #LossLit #JoyLit
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07/10/23 And every day since. In war, there are no winners. #LossLit
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Congratulations Stefanie #JoyLit
I'm stunned !! Thank you everybody for voting (no matter for whom). I'm looking forward to reading all your poems ! #BornBattleReady #WritingCommunity #poetry
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Good evening all, it’s Wednesday night and time for #LossLit Please feel free to post anything you’d like relating to Loss over the next 2 hours. Be kind, take care and happy writing x
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Ben Reeves' masterpiece Everything was Beautiful and Nothing Hurt embodies #LossLit and #JoyLit beautifully. If you are reading this, then I cannot recommend it highly enough. If you are not reading this, then I still recommend it.
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Good evening all, it’s Wednesday night and time for #LossLit Please feel free to post anything you’d like relating to Loss over the next 2 hours. Be kind, take care and happy writing x
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[Homophone lover's schedule] Working, 9:25 Watching Wimbledon, ten-ish Bookmakers, five to one Dentist, 2:30 Bible reading: 3:16-21 Playing golf, four Over to yours, 18:12 Dinner, eight Eye test, 20:20
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Hugh Grant’s classic British deadpan during Richard Curtis’ Honorary Oscar speech was absolutely priceless. A true legend.
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The people stared with Joy and wonder, as the moon stole the sun from the sky and the light was Lost. #JoyLit #LossLit
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“Up the RA Nigel?” Oh you can literally see the SECOND she knows she’s going to humiliate him 👏😂🔥
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I'll tell you, honestly, I would have loved it if he could’ve beat that shit. Loved it.
Some sad news to bring you. Former England player and manager Kevin Keegan has passed away at the age of 75 after battling cancer. Our thoughts are with his family and friends.
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Last time we met, I lost my heart. This time, I found it. #LossLit
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Welcome to #LossLit Wednesday! Today is May 20, 2026. We will be here for the next two hours (9-11pm) #LossLit is a digital project where we come together and talk about the idea of #Loss and how we deal with it. Please come and join us : #LossLit #JoyLit
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A Norwegian neuroscientist spent 20 years proving that the act of writing by hand changes the human brain in ways typing physically cannot, and almost nobody outside her field has read the paper. Her name is Audrey van der Meer. She runs a brain research lab in Trondheim, and the paper that closed the argument was published in 2024 in a journal called Frontiers in Psychology. The finding is brutal enough that it should have changed every classroom on Earth. The experiment was simple. She recruited 36 university students and put each one in a cap with 256 sensors pressed against their scalp to record brain activity. Words flashed on a screen one at a time. Sometimes the students wrote the word by hand on a touchscreen using a digital pen, and sometimes they typed the same word on a keyboard. Every neural response was recorded for the full five seconds the word stayed on screen. Then her team looked at the part of the data most researchers had ignored for years, which is how different parts of the brain were communicating with each other during the task. When the students wrote by hand, the brain lit up everywhere at once. The regions responsible for memory, sensory integration, and the encoding of new information were all firing together in a coordinated pattern that spread across the entire cortex. The whole network was awake and connected. When the same students typed the same word, that pattern collapsed almost completely. Most of the brain went quiet, and the connections between regions that had been alive seconds earlier were nowhere to be found on the EEG. Same word, same brain, same person, and two completely different neurological events. The reason turned out to be something nobody had really paid attention to before her work. Writing by hand is not one motion but a sequence of thousands of tiny micro-movements coordinated with your eyes in real time, where each letter is a different shape that requires the brain to solve a slightly different spatial problem. Your fingers, wrist, vision, and the parts of your brain that track position in space are all working together to produce one letter, then the next, then the next. Typing throws all of that away. Every key on a keyboard requires the exact same finger motion regardless of which letter you are pressing, which means the brain has almost nothing to integrate and almost no problem to solve. Van der Meer said it plainly in her interviews. Pressing the same key with the same finger over and over does not stimulate the brain in any meaningful way, and she pointed out something that should scare every parent who handed their kid an iPad. Children who learn to read and write on tablets often cannot tell letters like b and d apart, because they have never physically felt with their bodies what it takes to actually produce those letters on a page. A decade before her, two researchers at Princeton ran the same fight using a completely different method and ended up at the same answer. Pam Mueller and Daniel Oppenheimer tested 327 students across three experiments, where half took notes on laptops with the internet disabled and half took notes by hand, before testing everyone on what they actually understood from the lectures they had watched. The handwriting group won by a wide margin on every question that required real understanding rather than surface recall. The reason was hiding in the transcripts of what the two groups had actually written down. The laptop students typed almost word for word, capturing more total content but processing almost none of it as they went, while the handwriting students physically could not write fast enough to transcribe a lecture in real time, which forced them to listen carefully, decide what actually mattered, and put it in their own words on the page. That single act of choosing what to keep was the learning itself, and the keyboard had quietly skipped the choosing and skipped the learning along with it. Two studies. Two countries. Same answer. Handwriting makes the brain work. Typing lets it coast. Every note you have ever typed instead of written went into your brain through a thinner pipe. Every meeting, every book highlight, every idea you captured on your phone instead of on paper was processed at half depth. You did not forget those things because your memory is bad. You forgot them because typing never woke the part of the brain that would have made them stick. The fix is the thing your grandmother already knew. Pick up a pen. Write the thing down. The slower road is the faster one.
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"2026 is going to be my year!" Me in April:
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I thought the world was in a bad place last week. I didn't think it would get much worse. I was wrong. #LossLit
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Welcome to #LossLit Wednesday! We are here for the next two hours; we like to discuss or exchange on the idea of #Loss as it affects us. Everyone is welcome to join in - Pls use the hashtags below: #LossLit #JoyLit
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The world is in a very dark place right now, Hold close to those you love. #LossLit
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