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Author and widower. Read my story of disabling grief and transforming tears: https://nitter.gq/t.co/b9f2rIFCNb

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Joined November 2023
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Always on my mind and in my heart, you are still the spark that makes me smile and causes my life to blossom as a rose. You still pick me up, give me purpose and my heart knows. Thank you, I miss you, always.💔❤️‍🩹
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Imagine...💝
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A link so you can play and listen to my song, "How Do I Tell You I miss You"❤️‍🩹 pastewaves.com/player/77e29a…
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A song I wrote to my dear wife.❤️‍🩹 How Do I Tell You I miss You wewereliedto.substack.com/p/…
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Deep gratitude can recreate our attitude.
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And a very good morning to all! May this moment be met with a clear head and heart from the start. No matter the challenges, step into now and follow that heart.❤️‍🩹❤️
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A song I wrote and created lyrics and music copyrighted in 2016 called “It’s Not Real”. I wanted to create a jazz style with female vocals and created it using AI at homiwork. I think it came out decent. Here is the link to the player so you can listen: storage.yandexcloud.net/homi…
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...that "me" that broke during grief and heart break. That "me" that saw another path to life that didn't steal my life and energy from me. I am seeing beyond the programmed limitations and how love goes beyond all limitations, boundaries, restrictions. I am learning daily.❤️‍🩹
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...but it is important to know when to pause, and be aware of how it operates. if we are honest with ourself and with our heart, it will lead us to being authentic. Being real and willing to just be. Not try to be someone else, just be ME. The ME I have found through grief.
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...I can say that being conscious of it has been a big help for me to be willing to face what has too often choked my life. Fear is the opposite of love. Its purpose is to get us to enter fight or flight living, which is not living at all. But it is so very common...
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...have I grasped it? to some degree, not fully as it is something fear still affects. Fear is part of the human experience, instilled into us as young as 5 - 7 years old then repeated as we grow older until it may control most of our perceptions of life and rarely questioned.
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...grief and a broken heart revealed to my heart just how powerful love is. Loving ourself first and have it to give to all. I was speechless during the first few months of learning this as no one ever really talked much about it, but it was real and necessary to try and grasp...
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...I became aware of it and how it fooled me into thinking for years it was the only way to "survive". Grief has taught me it was a lie and an illusion. I had to face the fears that were ruling my mind and life. Not a fun thing to do, but there was some healing as it tore me up.
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