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Until you clock this as a man, you'd keep having issues with your relationships. Even when you meet the sweetest women, you'd push them away because you don't understand them. Pour into her and see if she'd not reciprocate. Women are not givers; they are reciprocators. A woman can give even more than you as the man, but you MUST first initiate it. You must first show her that you're kind and compassionate. You don't start a relationship where you haven't given to her but you expect her to give to you. It doesn't work that way with women. The command is for the man to love his woman and your love for her will cause her to submit. This doesn't mean that all women submit. Some women are leeches that even when you give and give and give, they'd never reciprocate. That's why you must know when to exit. If she's not reciprocating or showing efforts, you need to take a bow out. Women are not givers; they are reciprocators. Above all, love God.