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Built the Life I wanted. Now I write to my younger self. What 18-year-old me should have heard.

Joined January 2026
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Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Avoid pornography Dear men, If men start eating: 1. Pomegranates 2. Watermelon 🍉 3. Honey 🍯 4. Bitterkola 5. Walnuts 6. Red Meat🥓 7. Salmon 🥤 8. Garlic 🧄 9. Cloves 10. Ginger 11. Oysters 🦀 12. Ginseng 13. Dates 14. Avocado 🥑 15. Maca root 🫚 16. Eggs 🥞 17. Banana 🍌 18. Coconut water 🌊 19. Beetroots 20. Cinnamon Your erection and stamina will improve naturally, your testosterone and strength will increase, and your overall sexual health will improve within a few days.
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EYE CONTACT GUIDE: When you make eye contact with someone, it usually breaks within 2-3 seconds. If a person looks down when breaking eye contact, it shows submissiveness. If they look to the side when breaking eye contact, it shows dismissiveness. Never look away first.
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The first and only time most men get flowers is at their funeral.
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If your girlfriend decides to break up with you, don't try to change her mind. She's already got a new guy. Trust me.
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WARNING: You cannot please everyone. Make sure you make yourself proud first.
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Dear Self, Choosing a good mother for your kids is more important than choosing the most beautiful wife for yourself.
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Arsenal waited 22 years. David waited 15 years. Joseph waited 22 years. Sarah waited 10 years. Moses waited 40 years. Dear Self, be patient. Work hard. Never stop believing in yourself. God always rewards hard work.
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To the first job that hired me. Thank you for accepting me without any experience. I will never forget you.
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Get rich. Stay private. Live peacefully. That's the big goal.
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Dear Self, retweeted
Things won't get cheaper. You have to find a way to get richer.
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WARNING: If you avoid the hard work today, you train yourself to avoid it forever.
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A man should always dress well. Appearance signals self-respect.
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A man who: • Avoids porn • Lifts weights • Chases his purpose Is free from: • Anxiety • Weakness • Depression Remember that, dear Self.
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This mindset is everythiiiiiing.
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Things won't get cheaper. You have to find a way to get richer.
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I'm praying that the man reading this hits $100,000 by 2027.
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A man who: • Avoids porn • Lifts weights • Chases his purpose Is free from: • Anxiety • Weakness • Depression Remember that, dear Self.
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This mindset is everythiiiiiing.
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I REPEAT: Life begins at 15% body fat.
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