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Anyway, being a good lover is not an identity you declare for yourself. It’s an experience other people have of you. Your intentions and perception of yourself don’t always align with the impact you have on the people you love. You can mean well and still fall short.
Oh 😔
I’m gonna hold your hand while I say this ladies…
Normalize losing interest in a man the moment you spend more time decoding his behavior than enjoying his presence. Stop romanticizing mixed signals. Clarity is attractive. Consistency is sexy. And peace is nonnegotiable. Skip this sabbatical season.
midnight, listening to yoruba bata rhythms, dancing barefoot in the dark, pink satin nightwear, beads rolling loosely around my waist.
Arinlade is smiling.
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When someone loves you, you just know. It’s nearly impossible to hide it. Doesn’t mean you’ll never have issues, but even in the face of issues, you’d still know they love you.
All that “confusion” is from the clash between your delusion about yall & your reality.
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If there’s one thing I know, it’s that love is never confusing. If you’re confused about what yall are doing, I can tell you for sure it’s not love.
Nothing wrong in asking for clarity tho 🤷🏾♀️
I will say it over and over and over again.
There is absolutely no shame in asking what the purpose of a relationship is and where it is headed.
Ask the questions. Have the conversations. Be clear about what you want and what you are working towards.
Decentre the shame around having these conversations today. Clarity is not desperation.
Knowing what you want is not pressure and asking for direction is not asking for too much.