In Christ alone, my hope is found. Procurement & Supply chain
Lagos, Nigeria
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La Jefa ✨ retweeted
I thank social media for coming up with this silly performative crinkum crankum cause I would genuinely LOVE this irl 😂
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
“Do you even like the person beyond the excitement of being chosen?”
The way a good number of women romanticise the idea of meeting a complete stranger and marrying them within 3–6 months in the name of “men know what they want” will never sit well with me.
Not to be that person, but it’s strange. And the even crazier part is how much agency you’re willing to surrender in this whole narrative. Any random stranger can walk into your life, decide he wants to marry you within six months, and you interpret that as some grand validation of your worth. “He saw my worth, that’s why he married me so quickly.”
As opposed to questioning how strange it is that you’re willing to let someone you barely know make a lifelong commitment with you. Why is his willingness to marry you so quickly the ultimate measure of your worth? Where does your own judgment, discernment and decision-making come into all of this? Do you even like the person beyond the excitement of being chosen? So many questions, very few answers, but yeah…..it is what it is.
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
He most likely r*ped the woman and that’s why he’s in jail.
Thank the gods for a system that works to ensure justice is served. I hope his appeal gets rejected and they throw him back to the dungeon where he belongs.
A few weeks ago, I spoke to one of our Nigerian brothers at HMP Oakwood prison, who is currently serving a 10-year prison sentence for rape.
He told me that he met the woman at Oxygene Nightclub in Wolverhampton.
After meeting, they went back to his house, where they had sexual intercourse.
However, she later reported the matter to the police, alleging that she had been raped, and he was subsequently charged and convicted.
He was sentenced to 10 years imprisonment in November last year. Under the terms of his sentence, he is expected to serve two-thirds of the sentence before being deported back to Nigeria.
“False rape”
A few weeks ago, I spoke to one of our Nigerian brothers at HMP Oakwood prison, who is currently serving a 10-year prison sentence for rape.
He told me that he met the woman at Oxygene Nightclub in Wolverhampton.
After meeting, they went back to his house, where they had sexual intercourse.
However, she later reported the matter to the police, alleging that she had been raped, and he was subsequently charged and convicted.
He was sentenced to 10 years imprisonment in November last year. Under the terms of his sentence, he is expected to serve two-thirds of the sentence before being deported back to Nigeria.
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La Jefa ✨ retweeted
i feel like she is the perfect example of babes with no original thoughts that be on IG/TikTok too much. absolutely nothing wrong with this perspective but you can tell when people learned some bird shit online and are regurgitating it
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
If your man is comfortable watching you do house chores alone, he hates you. If your woman is comfortable watching you carry all the bills alone, she hates you. Anything that doesn’t involve both of you making each other’s lives easier in ALL areas is definitely not love.
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
what absolutely floors me about the nigerian male mind is that their global image & absolute geopolitical irrelevance does not move them at all, instead they channel their 5 collective neurons to misogyny, fraud & rape & are only active when it comes to subjugating women & gays😭
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
Nothing triggers me like seeing the word “helping” in discourse about spouses doing things in their home. As a woman you are not “helping” your husband to pay bills, and as a man you are not “helping” your wife with house chores or childcare. Its your bloody responsibility
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
The way a good number of women romanticise the idea of meeting a complete stranger and marrying them within 3–6 months in the name of “men know what they want” will never sit well with me.
Not to be that person, but it’s strange. And the even crazier part is how much agency you’re willing to surrender in this whole narrative. Any random stranger can walk into your life, decide he wants to marry you within six months, and you interpret that as some grand validation of your worth. “He saw my worth, that’s why he married me so quickly.”
As opposed to questioning how strange it is that you’re willing to let someone you barely know make a lifelong commitment with you. Why is his willingness to marry you so quickly the ultimate measure of your worth? Where does your own judgment, discernment and decision-making come into all of this? Do you even like the person beyond the excitement of being chosen? So many questions, very few answers, but yeah…..it is what it is.
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
Nigerian women and achieving
Congratulations, Nigeria! 🇳🇬
The first African nation to win the #U17WWC 🙌
The Flamingos claimed their maiden title after beating Japan 2-1 in Rabat.
ALT Nigeria players celebrate on a “Champions” podium under green and white confetti, lifting the FIFA U-17 Women’s World Cup trophy.
La Jefa ✨ retweeted
Imagine trying to trick me into revealing classified information and you bring a man.
