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Joined September 2010
Women are told that the early years of parenting are tough, but they’ll naturally adapt to motherhood; when they don’t, it’s because they’re selfish, damaged, or both. This research tells a different story. My latest for @TheAtlantic. theatlantic.com/family/archi…
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My 10-year-old this morning: What’s the difference between politics and baseball? In baseball, you’re out if you get caught stealing.
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The View's Sunny Hostin suggests that employers remove the "convicted felon" disclosure requirement from employment forms, since it became clear that a convicted felon can be elected President. She's 100% correct.
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A lot of gutting thoughts this morning, among them, this: Walz/Harris would have won.
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Early this morning, Donald Trump was declared the winner of the U.S. presidential election. Our commitment to building and amplifying movements for a more just and peaceful world continues.
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Small comfort now, but vouchers went 0-3 on state ballots. 100’s of thousands of Trump voters voted against school vouchers. In KY, Trump won 65-35 but vouchers *lost* by the same margin—losing all 120 counties. In the reddest wave in decades, voters still rejected vouchers.
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Pediatrician here. If a nice, older kid/teenager comes trick or treating at your place, give them a piece of candy WITHOUT giving them a hard time. In fact, give them 2. They chose this over other risky activities. Validate that. #Halloween
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This is a truly horrible take that's either negligently under-reported or intentionally ignoring some of the primary arguments made by those who oppose high-stakes testing. Heart vs. mind?! The degree of mischaracterization & condescension is astonishing. nytimes.com/2024/10/30/opini…
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And I say that as someone who has sung the praises of other Jess Grose columns. Her series on religion, for example, was thought-provoking and important. But we all swing and miss sometimes.
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Research on the “light triad” finds that three things are strongly correlated with well-being: “believing in the fundamental goodness of humans, treating everyone with dignity and respect, and not using people for your own personal gain.” Let’s be better to feel better.
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The weekend before Halloween is a good time to revisit this @gailcornwall story about how it's okay to scare kids! (Within reason.) goodhousekeeping.com/life/pa…
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Big thanks to @annanorthtweets for featuring my article for @TheCut in her latest for @voxdotcom. It's unfathomable to me how little we question the use of apps that track kids and compel their parents to do the same. vox.com/life/379082/school-t…
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Parents, grandparents, & teachers: Wondering how to exchange age-appropriate info & ideas about political institutions, politicians, & policy? Academic research leads the way. And so can kids' books! My latest for @goodhousemag has updated recommendations. goodhousekeeping.com/life/pa…
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Schools graduate low-income students “by reducing financial barriers [&] providing an array of academic support through learning communities, peer support & undergraduate research experiences…. [T]hey deliberately find ways to increase students’ sense of belonging on campus.”
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“Success [in parenting] isn’t … maintaining a particular mood or Instagram-approved vocal register. Success is being present in the chaos of the exchange, … holding on and letting go. Success is knowing that this dance is some of the hardest work I will ever do in my life.”
THIS, from a source in @elissaavery's piece: “I like to think of good care as a dance. Whoever is leading may have some idea of where and how caring should go, but it has to be constantly responsive to the one being cared for, trying to match their steps.” theatlantic.com/family/archi…
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