5+ years out& am wondering if I made the right choice to stay.I have done the lions share of recovery work.He has chosen not to. Now I find myself broken&stuck.
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Man why didn’t I think of that?!? I’m too damn nice. She looks pretty damn proud of herself!! Sorry not sorry 😂
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Man I was just reading through some of my tweets over the last few years. I find myself wondering where did that girl go. The one with all that strength & resolve. Lately I feel tired and worn. Full of resentment n completely disheartened. I think I need a reset. Find her again.
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It’s so sad when a fishing trip with the boys is no longer a simple thing. Especially when it was used to sneak away in the past. Lying taints everything. If my teenage son, who knows everything wasn’t going, this would be a hard no for me. But even still, it makes things surface
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Yup pretty much! Lol. Everything else can go to sh*t but my nails will always be done! I feel pretty if my nails are pretty 🤷♀️ it’s my self care!
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Does any 1 ever feel like they r an infidelity magnet? I was doing a vendor event this AM &was doing a sample nail on a lady &poor thing just breaks down in the event &starts telling me her story. My heart was broken 4 her. Luckily I have good resources 2 guide her w/ but damn it
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I have never posted a pic of myself on here. I didn’t want to be the poster child for infidelity so to speak. Or the ascribed shame that comes with it. But this is me, no make-up, no filter, deciding to embrace my grays ¬ color them! And I’m ok with who I am &what I see again!
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Wow. This is profound and really hit home for me today. It kinda flips the script on the toxic people in our lives. We get shaped and refined and they end up useless and eventually have no effect on us.
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Matthew West - Truth Be Told (Official Music Video) youtu.be/j4wYkS8Z3Io via @YouTube
There is so much truth in this! Bitterness is an evil pill that poisons you (not them) from the inside out. I have just as many reasons 2 b bitter as anyone else, but I don’t like what it does to me. I have worked incredibly hard to release the pain ¬ spray it all over others.
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fb.watch/1C_ufoLWBT/ I completely related to everything shania Twain said in this video. It’s amazing that all of of stories of infidelity are different but our feelings are the same. She found her voice again and so did I. You can too! 🤗 we can overcome our worst pain!
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#hardtruth this is a hard truth to hear, but it’s so true. You can choose to lay down & die and get stuck in bitterness or pick yourself back up and put in the HARD WORK it takes to heal. YOU are worth the effort!
Mic-drop....wow I am speechless. This is me to a T!! Ultra-independent is a trauma response. I am trauma responsing just reading this. facebook.com/469065889826577…
Yes! 🙌 I used to use that phrase quite frequently until D DAY. The road through infidelity was more than anyone is meant to handle. But in the weakness I turned to God and Hecarried me through! Without His grace and my faith I don’t think I would have made it to the other side.
This is so true!! Especially after you’ve walked through infidelity. It is a soul changing experience!
I know I’ve shared something similar before But it a good reminder of love & forgiveness that is bigger than us. No one is free from sin other than Jesus & if He can love & care for His betrayer so can I with His help of course! Even when they don’t deserve it bec we don’t either
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Anyone who’s walking down this journey of infidelity I’m sure can relate to this song/lyrics/feeling. Break it down to this next step and do the next right thing for now. Break it down into something can manage. You can do this! youtu.be/w6g1yQV0dIY
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On Sheep, Sheepdogs and Wolves - Kravstore A friend just shared this in Facebook. Wow! I walked around this world more as a sheep prior to dday. It transformed me into a sheepdog. And for that I am grateful. I can no longer live in denial or complacency. kravstore.nl/page-builder-po…
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