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i will speak on behalf of my man. It was early days of our dating. I was on meds and was bleeding heavily.
I got off from his car and I saw a huge stain on the seat (ps: i took all the precautions I can but still it leaked). I was embarrassed. I said sorry and said let me clean. He said - “no. I will take care of it. Don’t worry”. And he did took care of it.
I said sorry many times. He said - “why? ! Neha, this is the part of life. It is just a stain.”
at this point, run an agent that will keep rotating your keys.
Please don’t be a cave developer and manually rotate the keys.
Use agents and do something toofani 🙏🏽
Neha Sharma retweeted
BREAKING: Hackers steal personal data of thousands of children after a UK company was breached using the password “Password1" — which had remained unchanged for 12 years.
working on new tech (AI) videos.
hopefully will be live by weekend & scheduled a few for the next week.
I think I will take time to have a process of recording videos. I do many edits of the script of the video before, & during recording.
medium.com/@hellonehha published 102 blogs so far
nehasharma.dev/ published 103 blogs
Many more to come.
I am happy that I am able to stay consistent.
you don’t have to be special.
You just have to get up every day, put one foot in front of the other.
A video suggestion came in my YT tl.
a guy was sharing FDE roadmap.
he himself is not working, left job industry before AI came.
where is the accountability?
Currently I am talking to 3 people for house help.
The level of professionalism of 1 person is pretty good. Clear communication :
> per hour fee
> calls/text are always pre booked
> written communication and expectations
Other 2,
> call whenever they want
> no clear communication. Had to follow up 3-4 times for the same questions
> assuming 100 things that I have to correct every time.
> i really wanted to hire from these 2 but gosh getting any information from them is a struggle.
folks, give a good recommendation for work chair.
my current issue is - back support and back is not flexi (I have to put a lot of pressure).
ps: no Ikea suggestion please. I have 2 chairs from Ikea and both are not meeting my above requirements.
a few years ago, we hosted a family (Indian origin but UK based) for dinner.
Their sons (married and in their 30s) did exactly this. Left their plates at table and my reaction was - "why? why they are not taking their plates in kitchen? who exactly they are expecting to pick it? They are UK born and raised and no one has help here. What kind of upbringing is this?"
apparently, a few things are very deeply rooted in our blood.
Recently, a distant relative I barely know visited my home in Gurgaon. He is probably in his early 60s.
He finished his dinner, got up and went to the sink to wash his hands. Why couldn’t he take the plate with him?
I was thinking, who exactly are you expecting to pick up your plate? You’re not even in your own house.
Of course, I didn’t say anything. He was a guest and older than me.
The disturbing part isn’t even that he left his plate on the table. I genuinely don’t think it registered in his mind that he had left anything behind.
In his mind, dinner was over. The plate? Someone else would pick it up.
That’s how Indian men are trained. First your mother picks up after you, then your sister and then your wife.
Travel outside India and you realise how absurd this is.
We talk endlessly about preserving Indian culture. But we rarely ask which parts of that culture actually deserve to be preserved.
If ‘culture’ means a grown man can’t even pick up his own dirty plate because his mother, sister or wife will do it, maybe that part of our culture deserves to die.
Not everything old deserves to be preserved.
my biggest life's regret is leaving my home v late in my life.
When I moved out of my house for my job it was the great learning, and growth I had was insane.
I also learned who is my real friends and relatives and who are not. I have created my own support network.
