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planet m retweeted
İnsanın hayatında karşılaşabileceği en güzel şeylerden biri, kendisi için çabalamaktan yorulmayan birine rastlaması. Sevgisinden emin olduğun, varlığını sorgulamadığın biri. Çünkü bazen insanın ihtiyacı olan şey sevilmekten çok, o sevginin içinde kendini güvende hissedebilmektir.
I've experienced affection. I've experienced chemistry. I've experienced connection. But what I’m still longing to experience is sustained, mutual choosing.
planet m retweeted
The Venus retrograde really said, “if I can’t be my raw self around them, I don’t want that connection”
I’m confused about 0 relationships in my life. This is a first.
Congrats, me.
And that’s on relational trauma.
The end 💌
The love of my life will love me conditionally and she will not hold back. She will not gift me crumbs and hope I can still feel full.
Maybe the type of love I’ve dreamed of has only ever been a fantasy for other people.
I still choose to love as much, even when I meet people who love with “everything” already…as if it ran out. Or was used up already.
I know it’s limitless.
My love does not have a cap.
planet m retweeted
as someone who shows up fullly from the jump, ppl who do not are so confused when i pull back but you genuinely can’t question where the love letters went when you did everything possible to shrink me while i did everything possible to show you i love you and you’re supported.
“i miss what it was like before.” the before when you refused to show up? when you took everything for granted? when you played and ruined everything? NOW you’re ready to be a lover? girl, i recycled all the energy i gave you and am putting it back into the universe of real lovers. now everybody gets the love that you mishandled.
You can’t refuse to treat someone good until you’re sure you’re not being played or they truly love you because while you’re doing all of that, you’re ruining things and that person won’t be around for when you realise they could’ve been trusted the whole time. People won’t tolerate that for long and you’ll get left or create a toxic relationship for when you’re ready to finally participate in it. You just gotta jump in, both feet, and learn to leave IF you later see they’re the wrong person.
planet m retweeted
I feel like people tend to believe they 100% have the option to get back together with you, even if you communicate that in the event of a break up, that’s not the case lol. i’ve always operated from the mindset of “I won’t let someone tell me they don’t want me twice”
