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Introvert || Chelsea fan💙 || Humanity first || Psychologist || 2pac music ||Poem & poetry lover || Artistry enthusiast || Nature and tourism enthusiast ||Brymo

in my thoughts and mind
Joined June 2020
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“I match energy effortlessly” But I send you money you no gree send am back.
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God go punish the first guy wey appreciate woman beauty with money.
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MONEY only impresses Lazy girls. When a woman works hard, a man with money Is just BONUS, not a Ladder to upgrade.💡
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You went to school, I went to school You graduated, I graduated You hustle, I hustle But I am suppose to guide pass you and provide for you because I am the man. Worst of all, you are the one managing with me. God will take you.
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T.M retweeted
man go plan dates man go spend money man go do the chasing nw still man go still dey start with “show of intentionality” what exactly is the fun and what are we gaining from the whole thing?
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the way women overrate their importance in your life is actually insane. “i bring peace, care, and support” like i was at war before you showed up or some shit
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You’re not lucky that she’s with you, she’s privileged to have known you. You are a king, stop moving like a slave 🙂‍↔️
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The Nigerian dating scene has deteriorated beyond redemption. It is so fundamentally broken that it is difficult to see any realistic path towards salvaging it.
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Replying to @aminaisblue
The thing about women is they don’t see men’s effort as anything. They see it as bare minimum and they magnify their bare minimum to be greater than the 2 percent it is. A man will provide food and shelter but to women it is their cooking or having sex that’s the effort.
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Nigerian women btw, it’s only when you post lifestyle, they want you
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Way to go. Glad there's improvement, but still gat lots of simps to save
Men nowadays don't even double text, once you ignore their messages it's over for you 🥲
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Imagine having a stable job, your own house, a car and your life together, yet still thinking a woman who has none of those things is above your level just because of her body. 😂🤦🏾
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You’re broke as a girl, but instead of you to get yourself something to do and get funds for yourself, you’re busy broke shaming him, and feeling you’re with a wrong nigga, then blame him for your own brokenness, is that not stooooopidity??
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T.M retweeted
"If you give me 100k, I'll give you 10 naira. But I cannot give you 10 naira first because I'm a reciprocator, not an initiator" God will punish all the men who enabled this multidimensional nonsense
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"Women are not initiators" But you dey initiate billings. MMS
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"women gift too" "Women are breadwinner"
having ladies as neighbors is tough asf, them no like to contribute money for anything, to comot their money de pepper dem for body
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The poorest of the poorest Nigerians still have classism in them. Everybody wants to feel superior to somebody.
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"I love love" You do not love love if you're not a lover. The only proof that you are a lover is that you give, and enjoy intimacy without monetizing it. If you only remember you love love when a man buys gifts or does something for his woman, you do not love love. You're simply looking for a man who will sponsor you. You love love because you enjoy intimacy where partners are wholeheartedly and unwaveringly committed to each other with endless display of affection and giving without limit, because your heart is always happy when you are giving to and pouring into your person. "I'm a lover girl" You're not a lover girl just because you have list of things you want a man to do for you in relationship or because men do things for you. You're not a lover girl because you like romantic posts on Instagram where men do things for theor women or because you post flowers and money a man gives to you. You're a lover girl because you have an unwavering, non-monetized, heartfelt affection and commitment to someone you're in a romantic relationship with that you love and do everything for him within your power and resources to make him happy. You're a lover girl because you give and keep giving and it makes your heart happy.
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"Reciprocator" But he doesn't bill you, and you cannot reciprocate by not billing him too. Ole
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"Reciprocator" but na you dey first bill. Why not wait for them to bill you first? Only who doesn't love you, calls themselves a reciprocator. Interestingly, those who call themselves reciprocators never reciprocate shit. They only grow entitled. Every lover gives and looks forward to giving more because it is good for their heart.
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