A Nigerian woman living in the UK discovered that her husband had been sending money to his ex-girlfriend for almost two years. At first, she thought he was supporting his family back home. But one evening, while using his laptop, she saw a bank transfer with the ex-girlfriend’s name. When she confronted him, he admitted that the woman had been struggling financially and he didn’t want her to suffer. His wife asked him one question: If she means nothing to you anymore, why did you hide it from me? He said he knew she wouldn’t understand. But the real shock came when she discovered that the ex-girlfriend had been visiting him whenever his wife travelled for work. Now, she is wondering whether the financial support was truly out of kindness or whether something else had been going on. If you were her, would you consider this cheating, even without proof that they were intimate? Be Mindful.