Private matchmaking since 2008 | Nigeria & diaspora | Member, Institute of Marriage Administrators and Counselors of Nigeria https://nitter.gq/t.co/1sllRcEuKD
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Your head will not answer to any incantation, spell, enchantment, curse or evil pronouncement. You are covered by God’s protection; no evil word or power will take hold of you. Amen.
FIVE WAYS TO SCATTER A GOOD INTRODUCTION
Your matchmaker introduced you on Monday. By Wednesday, both of you are reporting each other.
Please, ordinary “nice to meet you” has not finished. How did we reach disciplinary committee? 😂
1. Turn the first call into an audit.
“How much do you earn? Is your house rented? Why did your last relationship fail?”
Ask meaningful questions, but allow the conversation to breathe. You are meeting a person, not acquiring a company.
2. Start collecting partner privileges immediately.
“You were online. Why did you not reply?”
You exchanged numbers yesterday. Discuss communication preferences before creating attendance rules.
3. Make your ex the guest of honour.
Every topic returns to what your ex did.
Share relevant history, but give this person a chance to have a different conversation with you.
4. Perform a lifestyle you cannot maintain.
You claim to travel every weekend. Now they are asking where you went last Saturday.
You went to buy gas, dear.
Tell the truth. Compatibility needs accurate information.
5. Play unavailable until they lose interest.
You like them, but delay every reply to avoid looking eager.
Then they stop calling, and you announce that nobody is serious.
Show interest. Suggest a time to talk. Keep agreed plans. Adults need something clearer than coded signals.
A good introduction opens a door. How you behave determines whether you can comfortably get to know each other.
Which of these would make you decline a second date?
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Your head will not answer to any incantation, spell, enchantment, curse or evil pronouncement. You are covered by God’s protection; no evil word or power will take hold of you. Amen.
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“I am not working hard because of woman”
But the only time you spend money is when women are around.
The only time you sleep with generator all night is when she is around
The only time you eat two chicken or turkey is when she is around
The only time you are eating out is when she is around
I have never been wrong in my life and this will not be my first
Most men (close to 99%) are working hard so they can make women (strange girls) comfortable.
Proof of pride
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I stopped buying stuff from the Hausa guys.
I've seen more than enough.
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So, 10 years ago, Pastor Jimmy Odukoya was a groomsman at Mo’s wedding to another man. Ten years later, he is marrying that same woman…
Personally, I think their relationship could be connected, in some way, to the collapse of their previous marriages.
Both were divorcees, but what makes the situation particularly intriguing is that Jimmy reportedly stood as a groomsman at Mo’s wedding to Mosa, a man said to be his close friend.
Of all the women pastor Jimmy could have married again, he eventually chose his friend’s former wife.
Interesting 🤔
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Don't let the worries of tomorrow steal the peace of today.
Take a deep breath, count your blessings and trust God with the things beyond your control.
May we never lose our gratitude, faith or ability to find joy in the little things.
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For some reasons I don’t know,I have a strong feeling today will end very beautifully for us🥰💃🏿
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Nepa bringing the light just now, like a thief in the midnight.
They will take it again before some people even notice there's light 😞
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Thanks to all my mutuals who reached out via DM to check on me and ask how they could help. I genuinely appreciate every one of you.
My account is finally back to normal, and I’m grateful for all the support and concern.
I’ll resume posting properly tomorrow.
Thank you all. ❤️
